There is a part of cold reading that where a lot of guys get lost. The important thing to notice here is the effectiveness of using cold reading at the right time of an interaction.
Cold reading can help you build rapport easily with any woman but also you are showing her that you understand them and make her feel you really know her.
One of the common mistakes made by guys in the community is using cold reading to early in an interaction, what happens here is that it looks like you are trying hard. Let's say you approach your target and in the first few minutes of an interaction you start using a cold reading line or technique, she will think, Come on how can he thinks he knows me if we just talkes for 5 minutes. I'm definitely not like that.
This will happen even if you said a great line, because everyone hates being predictable and we refuse to admit that someone can know how we are in a few minutes, in the other hand using cold reading techniques at the right time can have a great impact. Here are some great tips to maximize the effect of cold reading:
* Using the "I don't know you really well but ..."
* Giving a nice reason to your reading: "I think you are sensitive, I noticed that every time you talk about your passions you say how that makes you feel"
* Watch and read body language
* Be ambiguous with your comments, be general.
* Use one line at a time. Watch the reaction and what she says about the comment.
* Be intelligent, if she says she isn't impulsive then she thinks before she acts, therefore she might be logical, if she is logical she probably is methodical and so on.
* Read the body language and continue talking. If you say: "It seems you are in contact with your emotions" and then she gives you a body language cue showing that she agrees then drop the next line ,this time I will use a nice line to create rapport "I think that being available to express an emotion through a song, painting or any kind of art is really a thing that. Makes a difference"
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