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PostPosted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 6:31 pm 
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There is a part of cold reading that where a lot of guys get lost. The important thing to notice here is the effectiveness of using cold reading at the right time of an interaction.

Cold reading can help you build rapport easily with any woman but also you are showing her that you understand them and make her feel you really know her.

One of the common mistakes made by guys in the community is using cold reading to early in an interaction, what happens here is that it looks like you are trying hard. Let's say you approach your target and in the first few minutes of an interaction you start using a cold reading line or technique, she will think, Come on how can he thinks he knows me if we just talkes for 5 minutes. I'm definitely not like that.

This will happen even if you said a great line, because everyone hates being predictable and we refuse to admit that someone can know how we are in a few minutes, in the other hand using cold reading techniques at the right time can have a great impact. Here are some great tips to maximize the effect of cold reading:

* Using the "I don't know you really well but ..."

* Giving a nice reason to your reading: "I think you are sensitive, I noticed that every time you talk about your passions you say how that makes you feel"

* Watch and read body language

* Be ambiguous with your comments, be general.

* Use one line at a time. Watch the reaction and what she says about the comment.

* Be intelligent, if she says she isn't impulsive then she thinks before she acts, therefore she might be logical, if she is logical she probably is methodical and so on.

* Read the body language and continue talking. If you say: "It seems you are in contact with your emotions" and then she gives you a body language cue showing that she agrees then drop the next line ,this time I will use a nice line to create rapport "I think that being available to express an emotion through a song, painting or any kind of art is really a thing that. Makes a difference"

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Wow! Great post! This gives a lot of insight into cold reading patterns. Five stars deffinately!

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the most successful and outreagous PU's ive ever had - most of them have had an IVD in the first five minutes. it really snatches their attention and rockets your value. i think its the way that you deliver them that determines how she thinks of it.

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Cold reading is awesome if you can use it right and at the correct time. I had a girl just tripping over herself when I ran it on her. The one she was most impressed with was the cube. She then asked so what does that tell you about me. You can just build it up and it's a huge connection maker. The don't use it too early rule and the one line at a time is the best advice out of all that. It builds anticipation too... Great post

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i think its the way that you deliver them that determines how she thinks of it.

Totally !!!

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The first thing is respect. You gotta respect that women take this seriously. I see a lot of guys just take this half ass approach to it and belittle who ever it is they're talking to. "So . . you're like ____ huh?" This isn't to be confused with negging. . .

Secondly, I think it's worthwhile to read up on your cold read of choice. I mean . . . some of you guys read books upon books on "pick up" . . . why not on take it a bit further?

I read palm. . . I mean, I really do. General reads are great, ie, you're a happy person, etc . . .

But if you can guess within a year or two when she had a major head injury. . . broken bone(s) . . . how many siblings she has . . . which sibling is closer to which parent . . . when she married(if she did) when she divorced(if she did) Her typical health issues . . . how old she was when she lost a parent (if she did) when she lost a grandparent (if she did) what her relationship with her mother is like . . . When she had a major illness . . . major trauma . . . (and it's not all fun and games. Although I NEVER say this to them, I can tell within a year or two of when they've experienced extreme trauma . . . and if it's not coupled with a death of a loved one or major physical issues . . . often times, it's rape . . .) When I get everything else right, they actually open up to me about even the most personal issues. . .

Then . . .

She'll BEG YOU for, "What will happen with my mother?" "When will I marry?" "What should I do?" "Should I break up with my boyfriend?" etc . . .

It's funny . . . I've seen guys in bars kinda catch on to what I'm doing . . . and what it does with the girls and I see them give this "palm reading" thing a twirl without any respect for it. Women can tell the difference. Just take it one step further. It doesn't take that much more effort.


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You will find that using cold reading is about reading body language and the small cues people give subconsciously...

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