the last 3 girls i've met out at various local spots and number closed have ALL sent me a text within the first 15min of conversing that goes something like this
"i had a good time tonight but before anything happens i want you to know that if your thinkin oh shes hot i want to get with her, i'm not like that"

i played it off well imo, by negging her assumptive comments. what have ya'll found to be the best defense against this?

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Have you been going semi caveman on these girls, lol. These girls are sensing a tad of aggression in your game. Usually when a girl says that it means the other way around and that theyre really DTF.

Every woman on earth says "I'm not like that." It's natural because she doesn't want to feel like a slut. So, if it does happen, she's making it your fault and not hers.

No woman ever says that unless she feels challenged by the male she's saying it to. She wouldn't say it unless she had already been thinking about it in her own mind. Tease her about it.

Good luck.

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no, i havn't been overly aggressive nor have i strayed away from my style.

now when you say to tease her about it, how do i go about choosing a line to take to do that which won't come off as her feeling like i'm actually saying "i told ya so"
goin out tonight to a bar that a friend of mine owns with her, looking for advice on how to deal with resistance that she may put up in either a bitch shield or shit test form with the same anti-slut comment

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Well theres an incredibly easy solution to this, because the problem is obvious.










You go to Tech. Now if you were up at a real school, say... UT, then you'd be ballin

Hahaha, in all seriousness though, teasing them is the best way. Something like
"Dang girl, don't give yourself so much credit. I talk to ugly girls too "
or
"Well I know where your mind is now... What is it with girls who can't seem to stay out of the gutter."
or, the classic Style response.
"Haha, you're funny. If I wasn't gay, I would totally take you up on that offer "
or a modified Style response. If you've seen Tropic Thunder, you'll get this one.
"Awww, thats cute. I'm gay though. Cradle the balls, stroke the shaft, work the pipe, SWALLOW THE GRAVY! " This one sets you up to change the subject to Tropic Thunder, which if she hasn't seen, she's not worth your time


P.S. It's the third quarter, UT is up by 2, and OU still sucks!

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Whoah, I'm not going to "get with you". All I'm promising is a night of really great sex.

or,

pull out your phone, call your best friend and say "dude, sorry, the bukkake's off" in front of her.

say 2 things. A. your not that hot. not being offensive - your good looking - i just wouldnt describe you as HOT.
B. Theres more to a girl than looks. beauty is common. theres something much deeper you need for a relationship than looks.
V1V

Not to sound gay, but...

LOVE IT

my reply wood be:

"im SoO happy u cleared that up!
it seemed u were tryina get into my pants
but IM not like that:)"

if she still wants to be a bitch about it
iunno, flip the bird, w/e....ther will always be others:D

she is letting you know that she is not like that. in other words she is letting you know that she is a relationships type and not a one night stand type. the rest of you are reading too much into this.
this chick wants a relationship. go romantic on her.

You obviously need to peacock. That way you can be the one getting the looks. The best bet is to take her to a gay bar or club. That way she will feel really small next to you and your fuzzy boa. Seriously, she will feel invisible. Her entire time will be spent keeping guys from grabbing your buns.

Very,very easy. Don´t do anything. Be yourself and keep doing what you have been doing so far.

She is really into you, but in order for her not to appear as a slut she has to text you something like this. It´s on!!! You don´t need anything.

Go for it!!!

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"relax there little lady, i'm not that easy. :p"

or maybe just ignore the comment all together as if you haven't checked your phone recently. It's like in MM when Mystery talks about jumping through hoops. If you choose to you can just ignore her hoop. Also this can help you realize you gotta work on a situation later in the night where she can have some room for plausible denial.


That way she can say to her friends:
"We were gonna go back to his place to drink some wine. He showed me his goldfish and well one thing led to another...."

CPT

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You have player vibe.

You need to stop worrying about attraction, and focus on comfort, vulnerability and qualification.

You want to make them think you actually like them for something non sexual/non physical.

Ignore anything like this, text and call them like normal and work on conveying more about yourself.

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You have player vibe.

You need to stop worrying about attraction, and focus on comfort, vulnerability and qualification.

You want to make them think you actually like them for something non sexual/non physical.

Ignore anything like this, text and call them like normal and work on conveying more about yourself.

S