Hey what's up guys? This is strange. I was in a better mood, more energetic, more confident, more social, etc. when i DIDN"T have any girls in my life. I thought this was very strange b/c since i've been kinda with this girl....my life seems to have gotten depressing, not exciting...mentally SLOW..basically i smile less.

I tried to figure what the fuck was the change that caused this..looked at diet..sleeping habits....drinking habits...smoking habits...etc. But then i realized "wait...i've been getting blown every day from this girl since i've been with her" ...could getting non stop blowjobs actually be bad?!

That's actually the question i am posing, i would think that when getting ass you would feel even BETTER, but i feel WORSE. So does frequent busting of your load even if it's via a chick's mouth, make you feel depressed?

She left yesterday, so i didn't get head or jerk off...and today i THINK i feel more energetic, more intelligent, wittier. I guess even when you have a girl, you still can't be busting all the time just because you "can"?

Thanks for reading.

You are probably suffering from a zinc deficiency (you can lose up to 75% daily value of zinc every time you bust one). Try getting some zinc pills from Wal-Mart or the body-building supplement ZMA which is a combination of zinc and magnesium you take before bed.

You can still get some every day, you just have to replace what you've lost

Dude stop it, your feelings are just placebo, you think it has an effect so you convince yourself it does...

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I would guess that the depression has something to do with the relationship you have with this girl as opposed to ejaculation. You should explore your feelings about this relationship. Is there something more you want out of it? Would you rather not be in this relationship? Do you feel guilty about a lack of commitment? Do you feel uncomfortable because there is too much commitment? Do you feel trapped? If you have a history of depression the stress of a new relationship could trigger a renewal of these feelings. The relationship dynamic is much more likely the cause of these feelings if there have been no other changes in your life. If the feelings get worse you should consider seeing a therapist.

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Was this actually a real question?

If you are feeling depressed, start finding out what is missing in your life. I do not think your constant BJs would affect you in a negative way.

Thank you for your responses, but i'm curious as to how this is a placebo effect?

Most people will state not to jerk off(bust) b/c it will increase your level of testosterone, mental quickness, sex drive and will enhance gaming.

Now it's being said that busting causes no bodily change? I take pride in being quick witted, being able to think on tangents, and to hold a conversation of "value"...so basically everyone here is saying that busting will have an impact if i jerk off, but not if i'm getting a blowjob? Doesn't make sense to me. I rather have mental agility than getting blown all the time just because i can, i've been feeling weak in my social skills and that's caused me to feel sad. The reason as to why i've been weak in my social skills is the prime concern.

Not only weak, but lack of desire to have a "thinking" conversation.

It's true, most trainers and fighters I know do not engage in sexual activity before a fight, some for as long as seven to fourteen days. When I train in both weights, cardio, and MMA, I do notice a big difference in my energy level and stamina. It's not a placebo effect since when you spar you can tell the difference in their speed, power, and reaction times without asking them about their sex lives in the ring.

There's definitely a science behind this, and I wish more professionals in the medical field would investigate this instead of being deterred by the stigma attached to medicine related to sex.

To OP: Yes, blowing your load too often can and will weaken you. You need to heed the previous posters' advice on replenishing what you lose by taking supplements and eating better. You will also need to cut back from those blow jobs if that doesn't work, it takes far longer for the body to build back its reserves than to lose them.

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true. i had to stop 3 weeks b4 a boxing match.
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