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dode69
PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 9:09 pm 
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Been there done it
If you like ur job, its a bad idea....... if you have no problems walking away from it when she wants a relationship then hey go for it........ but trust me everyone will know ur biz........... women gossiup at work way too much and they use the work place as another ave to meet the love of their lives...........
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:17 am 
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Nothing wrong with gaming at work, its a little more delicate but if you can navigate to a close well than good on you.

However, this is where work game becomes more difficult. Game theory does not tell us nearly as much about dealing with casual hookups as it ought to. If your target is not your dream girl you need to figure out how to make the hook up casual so that you can still work with this person.

My approach is to send messages that say: I value you and enjoy your company while not sending any messages that say your interested in a real relationship. Woman have higher EQ's than us, she'll catch the hint. DO NOT do anything to make her think you like her. She'll get attached, you'll piss her off, and the next thing you its an awkward work environment...... or your fired.

Good luck!!
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Game theory does not tell us nearly as much about dealing with casual hookups as it ought to.
My economics degree compels me to make a joke here... I was going to with something along the lines of it not being a good idea to take relationship advise from a schizophrenic like John Nash... but then I decided that nobody would know what the hell I was talking about so I'll spare you......


move along......... nothing to see here....
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hahaha, I got it, thats a good one
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What you want to do is start with a professional relationship, and let her gradually de-esculate it into something more. Keep it strait forward, but spike stories about your life here and there.

Don't really think about it in the context of gaming! You should trust me on this one; I work at a law firm and your ass will be sued!

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I think you'll find that most of us who have been around for a bit will tell you that sarging at the workplace is a bad idea.

There are too many implications.

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let the workplace be just that, a work place...
Ha!!! No way!! I've banged girls in pretty much every job I've had. I worked in restaurant and banged most of the waitresses. I worked in McDonalds and banged a couple of the girls there and did everything else with another. I worked in a record company and banged a colleague in an office that was being used as a wardrobe during a photo shoot. I worked in a recording studio and banged the receptionist. There's been loads more. If they're down with it then do it I say! I've never had any problems with it. Shit only gets awkward afterwards if you let it.
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Bang away. Just make sure they are not married. BAD IDEA!
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i wouldnt game at work or do so subtly
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Ah, I've been wondering about this subject, as in my other thread.

Quite a few here are not recommending trying anything at work.

I'm pretty sure that for some of us, in our parents' generation (1970s, 80s), it was quite common that couples who eventually got married did meet at work or in a work capacity. Recently, for some reason, it's not quite the done thing, possibly because people today are generally more promiscuous and companies don't want heartbroken employees quitting or suing.
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Ok this is gonna sound really weird: I ran game on a HB9 colleague when I was an AFC, before I ever read the Game. Unknown to me, I was using all of the techniques on her that I am now able to put a name to. I teased her, negged her, did FD's, push pulled, made great eye contact (something I NEVER used to do with girls), made cleverly disguised sexual innuendos, and generally acted alpha in her presence all day.

Why and how I did this I don't know, it was almost as if I was pushed by another part of myself to act this way with her. I ultimately did not get in bed with her, although by the end of us working together she was practically begging, going out of her way to touch me, holding eye contact for 20 seconds or more, laughing at all my jokes and body language quirks, scratching her wrists, stroking her hair.

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Oh man. I shoulda closed her. Dammit sometimes timing is everything in this life...wish I'd read the Game earlier...@&#&^!! :evil:
Wow, I forgot that I made this post about a year ago.

I am AGAIN in a similar situation. This time it's worse because this girl and I work in very close proximity to each other for long hours everyday.

I dunno, my willpower is just about gone, I think I'm gonna break my own rules...

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I am AGAIN in a similar situation. This time it's worse because this girl and I work in very close proximity to each other for long hours everyday.

I dunno, my willpower is just about gone, I think I'm gonna break my own rules...
Well... anything happen?
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i fucked a girl at my last job, her boyfriend also worked there, he found out we just hung out and threatened to stab me. I quit and moved far away!

Now I just started a new job and there is this girl who will not stop flirting with me. We connect on the sub concious level. Going to see if she wants to go do something this weekend.

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I suggest not to work and play.... I know this from experience... unless you want it to be miserable for months on end... TRUST ME!!! If you like your job at all, don't do it! And don't say I didn't warn you
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I suggest not to work and play.... I know this from experience... unless you want it to be miserable for months on end... TRUST ME!!! If you like your job at all, don't do it! And don't say I didn't warn you
I can totally see why you might say this... but I know a few couples who did meet in a workplace. So it's not impossible.
And maybe if you've got a big workplace where people are spread out, and you might not necessarily see them that often unless you make an effort to go over to another office/floor/building, then it can't be that bad if things went sour.
I guess it's all about assessing the risks.
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