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I hope my post doesn't come across as arrogant...I really don't want to appear that way.
Anyway, the way I feel about most of what I've read with PUA stuff is that it is built around the presumptions that the girl isn't going to be physically attracted to you before any interaction. For example, if you walk in to a room, a party or whatever, beyond whatever peacocking and body language qualities you may have, the techniques would be designed to make the girl physically (and emotionally) attracted to you.
In my case I find often that I get IOI's, without trying. I wouldn't call myself a vibrantly confident guy either. So again without trying to sound arrogant, I think a lot of girls would find me naturally attractive.
So, taking this in to consideration, are there particular things you think I should read, or particular methods you think I should try? If I *know* a girl is attracted to me, or that there is a good chance she would be, what then?
Its all an illusion.................sorry to burst your bubble. Women are constantly checking guys out, even if you're ugly.
Believe it or not women (even hot ones) are continually worrie dabout what guys think of them and are unsure how attractive they are until guys start interacting with them.
Usually this happens with girls 16-18 who continually play with their hair, look at me when their friends are talking, trailing their fingers over their legs and other body parts, foot pointing, hair twirling, smiles, extended eye contact, pouting, playing with earings etc etc. This is called "pinging" they are sending out sexual signals- and expecting "feedback" by guys "pinging" back- i.e. walking into lamposts, wolf whistling, staring etc
There is a noticeable break in IOIs ages 18-25 in a night club environment when women are in their prime and looking good. There are very few IOIs. In fact there is a term for this PUA Procrastination that is "the IOI that never comes". Girls are "poker faced" looking hot, their bitch shields are on full beam.
Then ages 25+ when women realise they're still "on the shelf", I think USA guys call them "cougars" they start 10 years of female desperation- wanting careers, kids, friends, stability, men...........and start dropping their standards- sleeping with older but muscular guys- or younger youthful looking males. Note I said "youthful looking" not "good looking"
IOI mystery solved!