Last weekend a good friend of mine flew out to Toronto from Calgary in order to attend a workshop with Sean Messenger, formerly of Pickup-101, who is now running his own workshops along-side Lucy Becker, a female tantra master that has been running her own workshops for some time now. The workshops teach what Sean calls Power Sexual Presence, or PSP. He gave me a brief description of the workshop contents, including telling me that the course has both men and women in it (he said about 15 women and 20 men attended this particular weekend) and that they did certain parts of the workshop interacting in order to learn from each other. He told me about the tremendous growth that my friend had made and how he and "the cutest girl in the class" ended up spending a great deal of time together and Sunday night; which proves to me the value of this workshop, as after hanging out with the guy for several months, I still hadn't figured out precisely how to overcome the mental block keeping him from becoming interested in any women we encountered.

I found Sean to be one of those rare people you meet, that you instantly connect with and we ended up having a great conversation. I met up with Sean at about 2pm, expecting him to rush the interaction and have to run off in as little as 30 minutes and at most getting 2 hours to talk with him; instead we sat down at a pub down the street from my school and after losing track of time, we ended up leaving at around 10:30! I admit that I did most of the talking, but he said he really enjoyed listening and offered valuable insight where he could and entertaining me with more than a few great stories and concepts of his own.

Now I'll give you the questions I asked and Sean's responses to them. I tried to ask different questions than the regular ones I see guys asking gurus and mpuas and he most definitely gave answers unlike anything I would have expected from any other big name from the community. Some of these responses may sound like jokes to you, but I assure you that they are quite serious responses, although I admit a few of them had me clutching my sides in laughter. If something sounds to you like he's not being overly serious about the question, or truthful, again I guarantee you he meant every word and if you truly take heed, you'll learn a few things - I know I did.

What was your biggest hurdle?

"Self hatred. Even the things that I was proud of, I hated. The fact that I could talk a lot, was due to the fact that I couldn't listen."

(This was where I asked if he would teach me this skill and he replied that he most definitely would and asked me to be his guest at his next workshop coming up this October, right here in Toronto. He said I would learn this skill on Sunday night and many others over the weekend and I can't express how thrilled I am to recieve such an honor. This is a hell of a stand-up guy.)

Would you label yourself as a PUA?

"Anyone labels me a PUA, I'm gonna kick them in the nuts until they rupture . . . in the heart.

I find all labels damaging and dehumanizing. Call me anything; call me brother; call me mate; call me Sean. "

What do you believe sets you apart from others in this field?

"I'm a grown ass man; I don't care if you think I'm smart; I don't care if you think I'm the best in the world with women; I only care about being the best happiest man I can be and helping other men achieve the same."

Do you consider what you do to be manipulative of women? Do you think manipulating women is ok?

"No. 100% NO.

I think anyone that is cool with manipulating women hates women, hates themself and would run screaming if ever he saw a vagina in broad daylight . . . because he is a gay homosexual. Noth that there's anything wrong with that. "

If you could change one thing about the community/how men in it think, what would it be?

"Blow it the fuck up and start over."

What one piece of knowledge would you think, would be valuable to newbies and veterans alike?


(Brace yourself to have your mind utterly fucking blown...)

































"There is nothing, NOTHING, more important than learning how to . . . breathe. Until you get this, don't waste you time with anything else."


(He went on to tell me the method of breathing he teaches and that he had posted this method for download on several torrent sites [so if you've got access to any of these, he whole heartedly hopes you will download his stuff for free in order to help yourself] and that guys had posted incredible results back as a result of utilizing it. He described to me the story of one guy that began using this technique. He said he made eye contact with a girl across the bar while standing there breathing and drinking his beer. He moved around the bar to see if it was just chance, or if she was really looking at him and she kept looking back. So he moved again and it continued. He went over to her and they started talking and ended up making out as a result.

I've begun using this technique myself and although nothing like that has happened to me yet, I do notice more women checking me out while walking down the street, in the grocery store, on the subway and in the school. I haven't been to a bar yet since starting this, but I have no doubt it would be even more powerful there, so no, he's not fucking with you, he's dead serious and I suggest you pursue this further by starting here: http://lvo3.com/powerfulsexualpresence/)


What do you hope members of the community will achieve by being part of it?

"Make everyone in their lives happier, create a better world around them, and find and accomplish what they were put on this earth to do."

What direction would you like to see the community go?

"I'd like to see the community bring men and women together; to learn from each other; to teach each other; to make each other totally sexually fulfilled; and to eradicate the bullshit advertising marketing Viagra adds, over-priced, under-powered sports cars, fake titties, gucci shopping sprees and end the Battle of the Sexes once and for all. Men and women want the same thing, it's the people trying to sell us shit who convinced us we're different. Fuck THAT."


I dunno about you, but I loved his replies and I really enjoyed writing this for you guys, because I got to relive being in the presence of a guy that is truly happy and well intentioned, which was a moving experience for me. Anyone that is searching for that happiness, to stop hating themselves (I know there's a few of you here, who have spoken at length about this issue), to become sexually powerful and many other things (including the powerful breathing technique mentioned during our interview), then check out http://lvo3.com/powerfulsexualpresence/ and if you're interested, I hope to see you at the up coming workshop October 16th-18th (I think that might be a typo on the site, my calander says 17th-19th if it's friday-sunday) for the lowest credible workshop price I've EVER seen. $850 is fucking cheap. I'm not trying to sell him extra spots and make him more money - he wouldn't appreciate that intention I'm quite sure - but even if you have to buy a plane ticket and a hotel for a few days, that's a cheaper price than any other big name run course out there these days. Conversely, I'll be passing on what I can and what I'm allowed to - out of respect for Sean and Lucy - in my own workshops and you can find info on/request them here 2-vt22828.html?start=15 on the forum and soon on the site I'm having built.

Hope you enjoyed the article and hopefully I can bring you more face-to-face interviews, rather than email based ones, in the not too distant future!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Good read. I read about the technique and it does seem a bit silly, but I'm going to give it a try tomorrow night.

Right about where your bladder is, is your Power Chakra and in the center of your chest is your Heart Chakra. By doing this technique (doing it properly takes practice, took me several hours to get it down pat and after a week and a half I'm still working on making it an unconscious habit) you draw sexual energy and power from your Power Chakra up into your Heart Chakra, opening yourself up to people. Whether you believe in this stuff or not, the proof is in the results, not the concepts. Although, anyone that purports to be able to sense energy, ALWAYS tells me I have incredibly powerful energy and when they touch my focusing crystal that hangs on a necklace right at my Heart Chakra, they immediately withdraw their hands as if they had touched something incredibly hot (whether they knew it was there or not); that combined with the effects I feel while wearing said crystal, make me quite the believer. Judge for yourself.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I stole that from Impacts myspace !

Sounds really good. I'd like to take a look at this breathing technique and try it out, is there a specific thing I need to search for on the torrent sites because I searched "Sean Messenger" and didn't really get any results.

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"My toughest opponent is always myself"
Musterion's Journal

http://lvo3.com/powerfulsexualpresence/

It's midway down that page. That's also the link to the Powerful Sexual Presence/Tantra workshops he and Lucy are running.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Tops post!! bump!

Blume!!!!! U dies!

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

I'll post the full articles I wrote detailing this technique in a minute.

Of course, I'm improving it all the time with my girl, so stay posted for updates. Or join me at PSP in Toronto or Amsterdam.

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Sean Messenger
http://LVo3.com

"War is not the answer. Love is."

Every man dreams of having girls check him out. Every man dreams of being the guy who walks into any room and has the gorgeous eyes of every hottie look at him with lust.

Every man dreams of being the MAN that women try to pick up.

Well, it ain't just a dream. It's real. I've found the key, and now I'm going to unlock it for you. My friend Lucy, an expert in Loving Tantra, taught this to men who, well, the kind of men who hear the word "Tantra" and immediately tune out, thinking there's some wacky hippy-dippy sensitive-pony-tailed guy stuff at work. But as soon as they finished this exercise, they went from average guys to MEN who were drawing women's eyes everywhere they went.

What women look for in a man is very simple. They need to see your Power, and Your Vulerability. They need to see your Strength, and your Love. They want to feel, to be blunt, your Hard **** in them, and your Open Heart on them. And there's an easy way for you to start doing it right now.

This exercise is very powerful, and has a magnetic effect on women, so please don't share this with anyone that you suspect is still angry, or bitter, or somehow unable to really Love women. I'm giving this to you because I trust you. Please respect that.

Now. Here is your exercise. Here is your practice. Here is the work that will transform you right now.

Stand up. Close your eyes. Quiet your mind, and focus on your breath. Now, start to feel your body. Don't move, but simple pay attention to every part of your body, one at a time, as if a giant MRI machine was scanning you. Feel it all.

Now move that attention to your crotchatal region. You know the area I'm talking about. Bring your focus... all the way down where your focus usually is when you see a picture of a gorgeous girl. Just feel your body there, and keep breathing. Breathe deep, and breathe slow.

Now inhale. Inhale deep and slow, and as you draw your breath in, let your attention rise up from down low all the way up to the center of your chest. There's a spot just above the zygomatic process, a space right above the center of your chest, where the energy of your heart lives.

Put your attention there, and exhale. Now move your attention back down, and breathe in again, and move your attention back up to your heart.

Imagine you are pulling the very real electricity that keeps your body alive from the very bottom of your spine, up that electrical highway to the center of your chest. Feel how the center of your chest begins to warm. Feel how the muscles between your ribs start to stretch, and even ache. Feel how that spot on your chest start to feel like a space, an opening, a portal from your Heart out into the world.

Keep doing this for just 5 minutes.

Now, open your eyes. You will find that all the annoying thoughts that have been plauging you like busy bees are suddenly just whispers. You will feel IN your body, and out of your head. You will feel that your Hard **** is strong, and your Open Heart is free.

THIS is how you walk through the world. Just go find a place where the kind of girls you like will be. Make yourself comfortable. Stand still, lean against a wall, or just grab a seat. Now with your eyes open or closed, do this exercise again. Every time you see a beautiful girl walk by, breathe in her beauty and let that energy fill you from **** to Heart. Let the feeling of pleasure fill you up. Let it grow and be.

When you do this, you will find that women's eyes start to turn to you. They may stare, they may just look for a second. But they cannot help but look because the electricity you are moving and building is quite literally, scientifically, a magnetic force.

Women will be DRAWN TO YOU.

Women will be, in the parlance of the pickup "gurus," ATTRACTED.

Literally. Attracted. Like iron filings to a magnet.

I know you are probably thinking what I thought when I first heard this. It's crazy, and silly, and goofy, and does nothing. I mean, you have to be good-looking and rich and flashy for girls to look, right?

Here's the real-deal. When I arrived in Toronto, I spent days walking around this city, admiring the variety of sexxxy women here. I was dressed well, I was smiling, I was looking good and feeling confident.

But not a single girl looked my way.

After I did this exercise last night, I went to a club where I really didn't even talk to anyone, and not only had every girl there looking at me, but had a girl come up to me out of nowhere, drag me to the bar, by me a drink, and make damn sure that she got to spend as much time with me as she could while I'm here.

Today I sat at lunch and watched people walk by, and I counted 73 girls, all ages, all races, all sexxxy in their way, looking at ME.

I looked just the same as I did on Friday. Well, actually, I looked a little worse, cos I'm wearing a ratty shirt and have been sleep-deprived and hungover for days.

But it's not what I looked like that drew them. It's the FEELING I have. It's the power in my body radiating out of my heart.

It's the magnet of my masculine presence.

Do this now, and track your results. Then be sure to let me know what you find.

I already know what's gonna happen, but I can't wait for you to find out. smilie

Be Love and Be Free,

Sean

P.S. After you do this and find yourself transformed, you might just want some more. That's why I'm coming back and doing a very special intense "Tantra for Pickup" workshop next month. It's going to be powerful, revolutionary, and because I want to share this with everyone, crazy-cheap. So stay posted for details and be ready to pounce, cos this is gonna sell out, well, the record now for sold-out is the 4 hours, 18 minutes it took for men to grab all the spots at The Next Level... and this is gonna go FASTER.

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Sean Messenger
http://LVo3.com

"War is not the answer. Love is."

Do you have a youtube video for this? I get the feeling that I'm doing this wrong. I think it would be great for visual learners like me

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"Nobody makes a greater mistake than he did nothing because he could do only a little." - Edmund Burke

I just received an email from the illustrious Johnny Soporno who remarked he is currently in Toronto. I've asked him about the possibility of engaging in a short interview, much like the one here and hopefully he's game. If so, then I'll be un-sticking this interview when I post that one. However, we are currently in the process of creating a section devoted to 4 & 5 star posts, so when that is created, this and other highly ranked threads will be able to be easily found there.

If that interview doesn't occur, or doesn't occur within the next few weeks, then I will be un-sticking this thread around the end of October, as I will be attending Sean's upcoming workshop in a week and a half and I'm sure I will have some stuff to add to the thread following it.

Who knows, perhaps I'll do my best to bring you all a monthly edition of an interview with someone well known within the community. Notice I didn't say someone with "good standing" or anything to that effect, cause I don't know about you, but I'd love to sit down over a pint and hear what some of the guys that are rumored to be the "bad element" have to say. Perhaps together we can prove some of the rumors about the well known figures wrong and others right. I promise to always bring you as unbiased and informative an article as I can!

Stay tuned for updates!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Alright. I just had one of the most amazing experiences anyone can have. My life has been totally changed and made better. I'm still me, I'm not saying I'm going away, I'm just gonna be better. I owe it all to this man and Lucy Becker, who is an amazing and renowned tantra expert.

I don't have time to tell you guys all about it right now, but FUCK, it's gonna blow your minds when I do!

STAY TUNED!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Alright everyone! Here's the long awaited inside scoop of Sean Messenger and Lucy Becket's: Powerful Sexual Presence/Tantra workshop! Brought to you by yours truly!

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<a href="http://vimeo.com/2051375?pg=embed&sec=2051375">psp tantra - rye lee</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user512887?pg=embed&sec=2051375">sean messenger</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com?pg=embed&sec=2051375">Vimeo</a>.

And more videos from this and a previous workshop can be seen here:

powerful-sexual-presence-tantra-videos-vt30688.html

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Did the exercise above for a good 2 minutes. Doubting it would work. Two days later I've had a party, but totally forgot to do the exercise again. Result: Two hot girls totally eye fucking me the entire night even though one of them had a boyfriend for quite a long time. Had IOI's quite the entire night by all the girls. This shit works like a charm! Will do proper exercises to see if it wasn't just coincidence

Not only this makes you feel better, you're whole mind is much more at peace. Thanks!

HOLY

FUCKING

SHIT!!!

holy fucking shit holy fucking shit holy fucking shit *

I'm literally mumbling these words as I'm writing this in my uni's lab w/ a lot of people around!

I don't know if it might because I haven't had a solid sleep exceeding 1 hr in the last 36 hrs but I was just testing this breathing technique out as I was reading along and

BAM!

IT FUCKING HIT ME LIKE A TRAIN WRECK!

Like an current of electricity originating from my crotch to the tip of my skull. Like MASSIVE MASSIVE fucking goosebumps. Feel like your whole body has been "washed" away of all the feelings that were there just prior to doing this exercise. The closest feeling I have ever had like this were:

1. When I was ejaculating & feeling the intense pleasure of sexual orgasm
2. When I was under the influence of Extasy (the rave drugs) and was feeling the euphoric experience
2. When I was under the influence of alcohol and experienced its "numbness"

And ALL THESE because i did WHAT? WHAT? Breathed?

Fuck, I'm sorry to be swearing so much but it's just INCREDIBLE. I mean... I'm fucking speechless... so simple... yet so goddamn profound. Like it just washes away all the negative feelings you have in your body and leaves you in a state of nirvana. A state of absolute numbness that we often get when drinking which is popularly referred to as "liquid courage".

Sean... I don't know for sure if this will have any effect on my game but I believe it will. Imagine being able to just "wash away" all the AA anytime you want like you have a "switch on/off". Imagine the amount of value you will build in her eyes and comfort you will create when you share this with her. You will actually TURN HER ON just by convincing her to do this very simple exercise. I'm actually inclined to believe that this could be the ultimate mind-fuck game. Fuckin hell this is powerful stuff. This is profound stuff. This is GODLY stuff. I'm gonna stop rambling on here & send you a PM as well as Rye Lee describing this experience because I need someone who knows wth is going on to explain to me what's happening.

Right now, I'm just stunned.

Stunned.