hey what's up guys...quick question please. Tonight there was this chick at a party and she's really cute/seems liek she can be a good person, but i've known her for a long time and i just don't like her as a person, something about her screams fake. Anyway. I was talking to my friend, and we mentioned "the gym" and she perks up "i go to the gym"....i look at her and said "doesn't look like it". Granted she's not fat at all and im sure is told she has an amazing body by many a man. But i FELT like i was joking, but i dont even think i smiled so possibly i just wanted to be mean to her. Would you guys say a PUA would apologize? Or act as though the comment has never been made? Thanks.

Oooo... that sounds bad dude! Unless she is a HB9/10 I dont think negging their body is ever a good idea... specially without a smile on your face

Dunno how you could get out of that one!

A PUA doesn't apologize. At the same time you do need to work on your delivery.
You can't act like you never said it. But you can distract her from the comment from changing the top
Welcome.

It does not matter how good looking the girl is when it comes to negs. Saying that saying a neg about a girls body is risky business as a lot of girls are self conscious about their body. You just need to have a solid delivery and what you say also has to be solid, because in this case what you say also matters just as much as the delivery does.

I 100% agree with you... what I was getting at is that I would never neg a HB below 9, even with a good delivery... But with an awesome delivery you could get away with it for a HB9/10. The girl needs to know she is hot for this to work me thinks, that way she will understand it is a joke.

You actually want to use this neg on HB 6-8 than a HB of 9 or 10. Because the more physical attractive the girl is the more likely she will have body image issues. You can use it on a HB9/10, but as I said you need good delivery for it.

Thanks for the replies guys.....i really expected "wow, that's not a neg, that's a damn insult u asshole!". So a PUA doesn't apologize haha.....even when he feels like he's been an inconsiderate asshole?

The line it self is basically an insult, but in context it basically becomes a neg.
How often do you see alpha males apologize?

That was an insult dude. I would have just said something like "Really?" or "Is that so?" and look her up and down.

Don't neg girls on their bodies, especially their weight or breasts. Some guys will be able to calibrate it right and make it seem innocent enough, but I think the majority of you gorillas will word it about as gently as a smack in the face.

Seriously, girls are super sensitive about this kind of thing. You are talking about creatures who spend hours in front of the mirror obsessing over the finest little details over their body. The hotter they look, they more time they put into it. So go for the perimeter, the edges so to speak: the hair, the nails, maybe the nose or eyelashes. It'll be less likely for your neg to blow up in your collective faces (by which I mean yours and hers), and you can still take her down a notch because she put so much effort into them.

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