What do you think of Ulysses

Ah, this is where the handy dandy wing comes in handy...

First of all... check your behavior. Are you coming across like a dick to the obstacle? Are you negging the target too hard? Are you coming across as needy? Something you're doing is triggering this response in the friend.

But, back to techniques: (if you're going at it alone)

there are several ways to deal with an unimpressed obstacle... you either satiate them, distract them, or isolate away from them.

1.) Satiate: You can give them what they want. Directly acknowledge that she's not impressed by you, and what's up (in a fun, playful way.) Don't buy her a drink or try to WIN her over, tell her a really nice DHV story (don't forget about your target) to show her that you're a humane, caring, bad ass who saves kittens from trees and makes the ladies swoon.

2.) Distract: Get the obstacle away from the set. Nasty bitches are only as powerful as their social circle. Escort her over to a guy you opened earlier in the night from another set, and set them up. Or, make up a game for the set to play, where they have to scavenger hunt through the bar, separately (of course, you'd stick with the target.) Do a bar trick you know you'll win, and make her go get you a drink as a consolation prize.

3.) Isolate: Get your target away from the obstacle. Your ability to do this should be a direct result of your comfort level in your own skin, and your ability to come across as non-threatening yet exciting.

Again, I stress, the real issue is what did you do to make the friend unimpressed? Bad body language, nasty attitude towards something, neediness, etc.

I meant the book but looking back the question had little value
A friend once compared the book to woman, in that its confusing at first but after a while a strange logic emerges.

here's a better question.

what do girls think of the Dandy character? and do you think the novelty of Dandyism is wearing thin?

Zip, is there any particular reason why women never approach me?
Not that I'm like insecure or have troubles approaching and fucking women, but it'd be nice to be approached once? ya know? Could intimidation be a possibility?

Hey Zip,

I PMed you only because, at the time, I could not find your advice thread. Here's the issue: I have a couple girl friends that want to go out sarging with me as a female wing. I have never sarged with a pivot before.

1. What do they need to know before I can take them out?
2. How do I go about training them so they can be the most effective?
3. What are some good strategies that will take advantage of their gender?

Thanks, Zip I appreciate your reply. I think i'm more interested in an authentic conversation, so i'll stick with direct game, as you call it. Also, i'm wondering what you think of Juggler Method, would you rather interact with a guy utilizing that style or a more routine based strategy. Also, i'm assuming if you walk by a bunch of chicks looking at sex advice and they start laughing nervously, one can go ahead and start a conversation with something along the lines of "learned something new?" Its happened to me a couple times, but i haven't had the guts to approach... And if there's anyway i reciprocate let me know cause your doing alot for all us noobs. Thanks again

Read the cufflinks trilogy and let me know what you think.