Okay, this post will be short and succint, explaining some really great tips which will improve all of your social interactions dramatically. P.S. After this post you will learn that mirror was the best invention ever!

So first off, practice gaming and social interaction with yourself infront of a mirror.

This will improve you in various ways:

*Your voice tonality, low and loud is a sign of masculinity which is GREAT! (Try to aim for it)

*Eye contact, practice holding EC through the mirror with yourself while speaking. (Out in the field, do not hold long EC with other males, it will seem threatening!)

*Your body language, practice relaxed body language while speaking.

*You will get more used to tell different stories, learning something and having it become natural needs continual repeating.
Now, combine all these and you master the art of storytelling.

Next, buy yourself new clothes and some jewelry.
Usually when you buy new clothes, you buy them only when you are sure they fit you and look good on you. (Just make sure your belt matches your shoes)
Wearing clothes and you know those look good on you (confidence), then they do look good on you. This is why buying new clothes is powerful confidence builder.


And now, the peacocky part.
To get comfortable wearing something extraordinary, you need to accustom in it.

For example, not until you wear a big really peacocky hat till you get comfortable with it, then you only are comfortable with all peacocky hats.

UPDATE:
Remember just to chitchat with different kinds of people too. This will calm down your nerves a great deal and help you get past AA.
As soon as you can just chitchat with anyone around you, you can practice gaming with anyone around you.

Thanks, Jurupa.

Tapping to destroy your approach anxiety http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlIrvu78NO0

To have that tapping thing work, you need to do it like an average amount of 3 times a day (tap each nervepart of your body seen in the video, starting from between nose and your eye, and ending at the karate chop point).

Think about something that makes you feel nervous, now do the tapping 3 times in a row, two times repeating all of what you say, and once without repeating your words.

Also remember to speak your own language, as you must be sure to understand the meaning.

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Bump !

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Good post.

[/quote]not until you wear a big really peacocky hat till you get comfortable with it, then you only are comfortable with all peacocky hats.
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I recently bought my first fedora. It's taking its time to grow on me, but I've had nothing but compliments while wearing it so it's still in the mix.

Or you can skip all that and just chit chat with random people as well as saying hello to random people as well. By doing this it will make starting conversations easier as well as make it easier to keep one going as well. And in turn will make picking up girls easier in the long run.

There are people who need to prepare themselves for a such thing.

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The preparing part for most people will stress them out even more than they are already are. These people are much better off in saying anything in their stress nervous state, because once the chit chat has started they will most likely relax some once they said something to the other person. And if a conversation is started from the chit chat they are even more than likely to relax and calm down to a point that they don't need to think what to do or say. If such people did this often enough they will learn to relax over time and will find it easier to start conservations with other people.

Good point Jurupa, I appreciate it. I'll add it in to this thread !

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Your welcome.

Good post Stetson.

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Thank you, appreciate the feedback. I also added one link about tapping to destroy approach anxiety.

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You don't need to spend money like this in order to get confidence.
You should be confident no matter what kind of cloths your are wearing.
If cloths make any difference is because they make a big difference in your mind.

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Yes, you shouldn't waste your money on new clothes! Right!
And yes, you actually should be confident all the time, no matter what you do!
Clothes which make a difference in your mind?! FUCK! My normal clothes only changes my outlook .

Oh my god, this dude is sooo right. None of us ever actually gave it a thought! We don't need to do fucking anything because we all are already so fucking confident !

One question dude..., do you smoke crack? Hope not, it might get you in jail.

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I applied this also, I bought a flashy tshirt(one that I normally woudnt wear) but wasnt comfertable wearing it. So what I did is firstly wear it at home a couple days and now its my fav shirt and wear it all the time when going out

Added more stuff about tapping !

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YEP YOU GOTTA MAKE YOU VOICE LIKE A BOOOM BOX. HAHA