The Roadster needs advice on dealing with those few unforgettable days of the month when your girl introduces you to the Mr.Hyde side of her personality.

You're free to make jokes, but any helpful pointers and experiences in your LTRs are appreciated. Thank you.

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Well, personally I make it clear to a girl as soon as anything like that starts to come up that I'm not really into fighting over ridiculous things that I have no idea what we're really fighting about and then I say, "I don't trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die!" After that I don't have to deal with PMS anymore....usually cause I never see her again, but give it a shot! Lol.

Seriously though, I dread that time of month, cause that's when every relationship I've ever had has fallen apart. I think the best thing to do, is just not have any serious discussions around that time and maybe let her hang out with her friends while you do something else. I heard a joke the other day about how back when humans were tribal, all the women would synch up and PMS at the same time, so once a month all the men in the tribe would declare a hunting trip. I think this is wise advice, run for the hills.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Lol!!!

I was thinking more along the lines of acting nice and saying nice things (you know, kind of like showing my Jekyll side) but I suppose running away from my problems couldn't hurt me that much in the long run.

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You'll have to settle for just blowjobs instead of vaginal sex because it's all nasty down there. Yeah, terrible I know.

Don't forget to have your bunker fully stocked.

Id just like to point out how serious and evil this PMS stuff is, and how it can fuck your game up big time. I was in a club with a girl I f-closed with the week before.... one min I felt like a mPUA, she was kissing me with passion telling me how much she wanted to fuck me, then the next min she went all cold... I asked what's wrong, she went on to tell me she was on her period and I was getting any, and I was back to being an afc. Im 99% sure i didn't do anything wrong within a minute of her kissing me and wanting to fuck me

Alright it looks like there'll be some royal butt kissing going on, which for me is just saying three nice things in a row about the woman. I have no idea how to build a bunker, I don't even own a shovel (which is good because it's one less hard metal object that can be swung at my head) or any other digging instruments (aside from the ones God gave me) so it looks like there's no contingency plan in case the mushy sentimentality stuff doesn't work.

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Sure there is! If you don't live with her, then just be busy for a few days till it blows past. Go drinking with the boys or something that will keep you occupied and with an allaby.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

In Korea all working women get a little vacation time every month for their period/PMS.

That's fucked. I'm not sure if I think that chicks should be pissed and offended, or totally take advantage of it.

P.S. I just noticed that you're not over in that area anymore. You moved to New Orleans?!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Well the women there are certainly not pissed. Women in America aren't pissed about having a higher percentage of college graduates and professional employment due to being specially treated for being women (well, the unattractive ones are pissed lol). Why would women in Korea feel pissed for getting what they feel like they deserve because of the pain of childbirth? In fact, they're pissed for not having MORE advantages. Feminists are blind, man.

Actually, I'm in California for Summer vacation. I'll be back in the Big Easy in late August.

OK OK I think I'm in the eye of the hurricane. One false step and it's game over. Oh yeah, I like to live dangerously...

As for avoidance, I can do that but I see it as chickening out. I think it's crucial I be able to deal with this, lest I turn into "that guy who disappears for a week every month".

Oh, and Chief once it gets messy down there the rage is over. You know you're in the eye of the hurricane if she's being nice before that happens---not the normal kind of nice mind you, but a creepy praying mantis type of nice where you feel like she could rip off the facade and bite your head off at any moment. And I'm not talking about the head on your shoulders.

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Sorry to say it dude but its the game but with a 'harder nut to crack'. If this chick was using PMS as an excuse to me, id treat her like a HB10 who i wanted bad enough to fight for. Just game her harder than you nornmally would. Hope it helps.

I dunno Roads, I see the first time it happens, as not being invested enough to have to deal with it. First time she starts to PMS, I'd just take a hike for a few days, although I'd keep in touch via text and phone if it were a serious relationship. By the time it comes around again, you should have grown enough of a bond to weather that storm a lot easier.

Perhaps I'm jaded due to the strength of my mother and sister's PMSing growing up and the fact that early in my life my step-dad took me aside and warned me that they became temporarily insane for a few days a month and that even he was afraid. My step-dad has social skills that blow me away and he doesn't scare easily, so when something scares him, I take it as something worth being cautious of.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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Aww a bunch of "alpha" men cant deal with little girls pmsing. Poor babies

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

Sorry sweetheart, but just like we shall never be able to experience PMS, nor childbirth, there are things that you will never be able to fully experience and appreciate from a man's perspective. In this case, it is how truly frightening females become before your period. It's fucking scary how you turn into completely different people, although this only seems to affect how you act towards men and not women, because I haven't heard too many women complain about girl's PMSing at them. We empathise and do our best to comfort and take care of women when they're pregnant, but there is next to no reciprocation when it comes to that time of the month, which should really be the trade off.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye