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Opened strong with a 10, good second meeting, but lost some game when I showed a little too much interest in the last 20 minutes or so, and things seems to take a step back. Fully believe I can get it back, just need some advice on how.

Also, I love that orange tie.

Alright. heres the deal. I have game, im very polished, im attractive, im confident, im clever. I can get the girls i want, im very good at creating attraction. But i have a huge problem. i CAN NOT go in for the kill. i was lucky enough to run into david deangelo's stuff when i was 14 so ive got the material and the swagger. But since i was that young i took some of it in the wrong way. i thought that you shouldnt show ANY interest at all. And ive had this thought dug into my deep inner game for a long time.

so whenever its crunch time. im alone with the girl, weve been clicking all night, its time for some action. I just cant go for it. I pussy out. When i know its time to make the move i get extremely nervous and even tell myself that i dont want to get it on tonight and try to get out of there as soon as possible. I feel that if i act like i wanna get some shell think thats all i want and reject me. I suppose a fear of rejection is also a factor in this dilema. the worse part about this is I KNOW THATS NOT HOW IT IS. i know that women like being pursued, i know they like it when you show interest. I cant get over this hump. Hell ive had a lot of prospects over the last year. All hot girls that were into me but i just couldnt make that final move. there was a mental wall there. The only girl ive gotten with is my last girlfriend who was very very straight forward with the fact that she liked me and basically told me to ask her out.

So, i need some help. Do you have any advice to get through this mental wall? any exercises or mental checklists for this specific problem? its killing me. I see how much of a pussy im being but i cant help it, its embedded into the bedrock of my personality.

hey man ...it's interesting that your involved in NLP and apply it to situations outside an office. Few questions on my mind regarding NLP.

One: I've stuttered since i was 4....the act of blocking or repeating "m m m milk" has obviously become a STROOONNGGG negative anchor in my mind. Since i've read about reframing beliefs/anchors....i'm wondering if NLP would actually work with something as solidified as stuttering. This is something that has ruled my life in a sense....if i'm more fluent my day will be awesome...if i'm not ..my day will be miserable. So it is a STRONG anchor in my mind, do you think that something this subconscious/ingrained can possibly ever be "reframed" by an NLP expert?

Two: How exactly do you apply rapport enchancing NLP techniques in every day conversation. I've read that EACH and EVERY word someone uses can be a huge indicator about that person..if that's true....how do you go about eliciting/reading/assuming information about someone and therefore apply it to enhance a "connection"?

You've said that you constantly use NLP techniques on yourself to enchance inner game....what specifics do you do regarding visualizations, reframing beliefs..etc? Don't you have to simply KNOW/BELIEVE NLP works or does the act itself prove it's validity ?

Thanks you for reading!

My friend has had a couple long term relationships. He told me that girls dont like it when you kiss them on the first date. I always do cause I build enough comfort before then, but I have never had a long term relationship before. does how soon your first kiss come affect the future of the relationship?