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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 10:59 pm 
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I know how hard this will sound, but read the whole post.
Thats it, enjoy! :D

So, just for the challenge and practice, I started gaming all the hot chicks I knew.. Even the LJBF ones, and since it all just came off naturally without even giving it much of a thought it wasn't even an effort to do so.

So here it comes, I *was* in the LJBF-zone of this one hot friend of mine (Right now, as I write this message, I'm more like in the Lets Not Be Friends, Bitch-zone :D!), and I have known her for about 5 years now... JESUS! Crazy, huh?

Well anyway, I gamed her and managed to step out of the LJBF-zone for 1 single weekend, and because I promised to myself to game everyone..., I even gamed her friend, of course (The LJBF-girl didn't know about it).

Well I do succesfully on both (Can't say *really* succesfully because of the outcome...) and they tell about me to each other, like every girl shares all goddamn information with her friend.. They go like "What?! He did/said that to you too?! Who does he think he is!" ---> HB's go on enrage.

So right now they called me and my target with her friend said something like this to me:
"Hey my *dear*... We have to discuss something with you."

Me: Dear? We are clearly moving way too quickly!

"*My target bursts up laughing and hands the phone to her friend*.... But you know, we aren't your game pieces, so stop "gaming" us! You know?, its really entertaining to chat with you but can't you cut off the gaming? Stop the gigolo-act! You are NOT a gigolo. And we are just friends!"

Here I switch my gear from gamer to somewhat *W-t-f just happened* gear and really ask that w-t-f?.. Smart me. They just caught me offguard!

So, right after that I try to regain and neg them both from expecting that I'm hitting on them *in a playful voice* "You think that I'm hitting on you both? Maaan..., you two are so full of yourself..."

But here they just throw it back to me !HARSHLY! with:
"*Phone is back at my target and I tell her instantly to hand the phone back to her friend, which she refuses, but I just say it again and she did so.* Continue:
"What?! We full of ourselves? YOU!, are full of yourself. Bragging to your friends about how you can hit women and stuff like that, you really thought we liked you? Oh no,no.. Maybe as a friend but something other... NO!"

Now after these words I really need to focus so I can keep my cool.. I just calmly say "You know, right now I'm just going to go and spend the rest of my cool evening."

HB's "*Here my target comes back on the phone, after numerous *yeah*'s from the background*Yeah, go on. I hope we didn't disturb you, we just wanted to let you know."

Right here my frame breaks... Me:"You disturbed me already."

HB's "Well, good bye."

Me: "Psfhh (I said something like that... Strange shit, huh?) *I close the phone*."


And right now I'm feeling a little unbalanced and insecure... Give me some help and feedback! Rawrgh, this means endless LJBF with them both?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 5:20 am 
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mmphh...gig-cough cough...ahem....bwahaAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahaa!!!
you foooool!! u said the SAME THINGS to them both!? At once?! HAHAHAHahahaha....

ok sorry i am done now. Erm ... is a sincere apology out of the question?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 6:22 am 
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Threesome time. :twisted:


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Threesome time. :twisted:
I can't say how completely with Chief I am on this.

If they were both hooked and they wanted it, then you can work it back up and you just excuse it in a way that they will accept as you just trying to get better at interacting with women and they are your friends, so you figured they were safe to practice on a bit. You never meant anything by it....but obviously theres SOMETHING there. Pump up the sexual tension by doing things like biting your lip and smiling, using your eyes to flirt a bit, etc. Before you know it, you can totally start making out with her. Do this with one, then the other, then you bring it all together and have a nice 3some.

You could do it with both of them at the same time, but I'm not sure how I'd tackle it due to having to seduce them to get them open to it again and that's much harder with the 2 of them together. It's doable, but will probably take a lot of skill.

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mmphh...gig-cough cough...ahem....bwahaAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahaa!!!
you foooool!! u said the SAME THINGS to them both!? At once?! HAHAHAHahahaha....

ok sorry i am done now. Erm ... is a sincere apology out of the question?
No, only a few same routines used on both of them, and then two "friends" of mine gave me in to them about what I do, those bloody bastards... And I even teached them!

Thanks Rye, I have been now analysing this till now, and I can see that you are exactly right!
But the point is that this feels like a huge shit test to me now, and I just haven't answered anything to it yet.

It really helped to hear the words "you can work it back up" from someone else's mouth than just my own :)!

Catching the girls one by one will be almost too easy, except that they might tell each other *again* about what I have done and it would mean another worser scenario.. This one doesn't even seem bad now when I have played it in my mind over and over again looking for clues.


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write back if...when 8) u pull it off


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So you gamed both girls with the SAME material and didn't expect them to talk to each other about it? That was a huge mistake. Girls tell each other everything and I mean everything.

To rectify the the situation I probably tell them I was just trying to get better acquainted with women and act all innocent.


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OH MY GOD! My target just flooded me with IOI's harder than EVER before... I had the tighest gaming EVER there! It all just went so smoothly that its unexplainable! The topic just evolved really quickly about our fight to sex and I tell you... I was ON FIRE!

Oh my god, I'm right now trying so hard just to not start screaming and laughing about this! And the best part is... Everything came off naturally! All that gaming from pure experiences and no need to think for answers..

I will write a long ass report later, because right now I don't want to bore myself writing it.

HARRRRRR! :D


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Sick man, waitin for that report.

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...i feel dumb and kinda jealous...nice job ^ ^


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Thats the problem with gaming within your social circle, there's always a risk that you lose friends and so on. And in my opinion telling friends about 'the game' should'nt be done, but there are exceptions.
I cant see how a three some is on here, but maybe girls are less shy in that part of the world. If you had the skills and my above statement i suppose so. But if it was me i'd just be focusing on just getting one of the girls and using the other just to create abit of jelously.

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I didn't mean to hijack this thread. But the forum wouldnt let me post a new thread because I have a new account.

Ok, this is the situation, I worked at this work for two years, but I had a girlfriend the whole time I worked there, but there was this cute brunette girl that always walked by my desk even though she didnt even sit on my floor. We always locked eyes but nothing more.

After a year of that, we add each other to msn but never talked, I ended up breaking up with my girlfriend. So me and this brunette started texting each other. she kept saying how she had a crush on me.. Everything went good, I put really good game on her. Push pull, negs, building comfort, you name it. It went so good. Kiss closed her the first time we hung out.

we texted each other every day after that. and all the sudden she stops texting me. we made plans to go out on a friday night, but she stop returning my text messages on a wednesday. I sent her one message on thursday and one message on friday, but I dont want to look to desperate. so I stopped there.

So she basically almost ditched me


We havent talked in a week now. What can I say that wouldn't make me look desperate ?


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Play it cool, lord knows why it all went tits up but that doesnt matter the idea of gaming is being able to work other women. just stop thinking about it and start sarging again the fact is there are plenty more where that came from.......depending on your game lol

oh and JimR cant wait for the full report i really thought you had fucked it up for a minute then =) very good advice from Rye Lee

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:10 am 
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I didn't mean to hijack this thread. But the forum wouldnt let me post a new thread because I have a new account.
Are you not able to post new threads in the Newbies section?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:41 pm 
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For MikeSmith:
O' jesus m8, I had that same situation not too long ago (though I didn't call or text her everyday... thats bad gaming if you do!) but anyway, one day (day three with her) everything is fine in the morning... But then its midday and she becomes unresponsive all of suddenly!

Well I just think like "Bah, I could try jealousy plotline to get her back..." then she saw me hanging around with 2 HBs (HB9 and HB7 both blonde.. my favorite, yummy!)!

Okay, I check... Shes staring at me! GREAT, at least thats what I thought first... Now all of sudden this motherfucking other guy pops out of nowhere and starts hitting on my primary target... Not so fucking great anymore, eh?

Well I couldn't do a jack there, but anyway, I had 2 HBs under my arms while my target was really far away from me and started moving away with the other guy... After a moment I just break up inside my own mind and fuck up the set I'm on... I basically just left the HBs without saying anything. Now the next few days I'm having a huge war going inside of my mind, asking myself that where did I go wrong :D
And also, lets admit that I had a crush on my target.

Now the other guy got my primary target and, for some reason, she hates me.


And now a bit about me...
A little update to the situation of mine, well I tried to bring the HBs together and lets just say that they weren't willing... And now I haven't spoken to them for about 1 week, because I have been rolling on for the whole week with other people including my whole family.


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