So its definitely slipped back in to casual sex?

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Yes. As long as she's a rockstar, you're fine. However, if she is a normal girl, enjoy the sex while you can and make sure to watch your ass.

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She was a rockstar.
But I wish I had read this earlier.
On wednesday I saw her slobbering all over some guy, then jump in a taxi with him and go....
It ripped me apart.
I would've rathered someone punched me in the face. The pain only last's a day, and you have an excited story out of this.
But now, everytime I think about her, I picture her eating this guys face.
Ouch.

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Why are you asking me? You're an expert, correct?

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Clearly, you've never been punched in the face, at least not the right way. Besides, she's just a FB, why do you care so much...unless it's jealousy and not pain you're feeling.

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Duuuuuude, you just made me snarf my Monster.




Now back to our regularly scheduled programming....

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Bon dia Zip!

Though I haven't read all those previous pages (53 is a lot!) and thus don't know whether or not it has been asked before, I thought I could ask you a question about age differences.

So, which age differences are acceptable?

Background info:

I just turned 19 a week ago. I get, mostly, estimated at 20/21 years old. A girl I would like 'to get acquainted with' at work is 23. Is it feasible?
And at the other end of the spectrum there is a girl that wil turn 17 in a month. Normally I would say 'NO' to that and hold guys with young girls in contempt, but this time (she's just plain beautiful) I am doubting. Where is the line?

K.

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Ahhhhh, a freshly popped cherry!

I'm 25 and have been fuck buddies with this 19 year old HB8 for a few months now. To make a long story short: she asked for my #, I ended up taking her out and F-Closing her on date two. She was really in to me and seemed to be looking for something much more serious than I. After the first month we hung out and "dated" she asked me, "What are we?" I flat out told her I liked her but that we'd only be dating and nothing serious. This we ended up defining as, "you can go out with whoever you want but you better wrap that shit up." Oh yeah, and don't be obvious or a dick about it either.

We continued to hang out and fuck once a week or so. I became busy starting a business, etc and we didn't hang out for a month. When we talked she would tell me of guys asking for her number at work and an instance she asked a guy for his. I figured it was a ploy to create jealosy. So, she ended up coming out to my place Thursday (which for her is a 40 minute drive one way) and fuck all night. Well, the next morning, my dumb ass asks her where she thought we stood, to which she replied "same as before, why?" I told her that I was curious as she had seemed like she was looking for something serious and that eventually I may be open to it.

She went on to interpret this as me wanting a serious relationship and how she likes the idea of us as we are. My problem here is:

1 She misinterpreted my question as being needy because we hadn't seen each other in a while.

2 In misinterpreting my question I believe I may have lost the stronghold that I once possessed.

3 I feel like this may jeopardize a situation I once found to be ideal. FUCK!

What do I do to regain that upper hand? Have I blown it by toeing the line with a borderline "needy" question? Or am I thinking this through too much? Any help or input would be greatly appreciated!

It is feasible, but you've got to ensure it's not going to be a burden to her. If you want to go out, make sure you either have and ID, or don't need one to wine and dine her. Or, just make it not a big deal that you're not going to have a whiskey at dinner.

Also, know if she's attracted to the youth in you or the fact that you are more mature than the average 19 year old. Knowing why someone is attracted to you is paramount to keeping that attraction alive.

As far as the line.. anything you could go to jail for is the line. When does this beautiful girl turn 18? Can you just fill you time up with other quality women and revisit this little chica?

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Hey Zip, do you think girls are more attracted to a guy's face or body?

From a evolutionary perspective i'd assume body because you can't catch food with a pretty smile, but now a days... a pretty face seems to have more importance over a strong physique because strength is no longer such an importance/necessity for survival. Whatcha think?

Thanks.

It's the same for guys... some girls are about the face. Some girls are about the body. Some guys are "face" guys. Some guys are "ass" guys. Some guys are all about breasts.

For me, the face is what I'm looking for when I'm interested in a long term something-or-other. The body is what I'm looking for when I'm hungry for some short term lovin. However, I've also proven myself absolutely wrong, in a major way.

POINT BEING: It's really not about the physical for women, if you're captivating enough to get through her superficiality. Take it from me, the most superficial bitch on the earth.

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You know, on that point I must disagree. No further explanation shall be given.

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Ohhh sounds like she's just trying to justify her own morality, I don't think she's popping any Vicodin over her self perception there Medic.

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What is it about Johnny Depp that drives girls crazy and have men wanting to be him?

His face, his mystery, and his voice are contributing factors but there has to be something else that I'm really not seeing.

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It's the Beau Brummel effect. Every generation has a few guys that mutually appeal to men and women on a visceral level. Johnny Depp happens to be our generation's Beau.

It's his mixture of "I don't give a shit" and "I do give a fuck... about what I think is important."

We all go crazy for it.

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