Ok one thing we all know, when we want to stand out from other guys, we got to be bold, you can't just say, hey, your so hot, at a bar or club, maybe what could be more effective is, "hey, my dad thinks your hot".

Just so far I can open with an opion opeer but I can't seem to build raport form there.

I just don't know how to get bolder.

Once time a girl invited me to smoke a bowl in her car, and I had a converation with her about comic books, and it was very effective, becouse I wasn't talking about a certain character and what he does and how he's cool, but I was discussing a story, and the human aspects of that story (I was discussing watchmen, info for all you nurds out there) She became intrested.

However something that wasnt effective,
I see a girl with a green drink
"hey thats an incredible hulk your drinking"
"do you know the hulk is red now"

No offense... but I don't think girls are too interested in comc books? I'm not sure but I think that stereotypical comic book nerds/fans are seen as geeks? (even tho deep down inside, all guys like super heroes, except they're not really into them)

I wouldnt talk about comic books (unless its a subject the girl is interested in and you know shes into comic books) otherwise you really aint gonna have much of a chance, just get ready to get get responses from girls like this:

"amm go away you freak!"

"weirdo!"

"ok whatever geek"

girls will shoot you down over things like that.

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well you get the basic understand of being bold, which is being confident
however to put it simpler it's just the need to be different then your typical guys
creative and spontaneous helps but just don't be lame

_Saiko

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If you're going to be bold, back it up. The more outrageous you are, the more you will get tested. So always calibrate your outter game to your level of inner game.

In other words, *drumroll* be yourself.

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Very good, never thought about it this way.

I'm not saying I always talk about superheros I'm just saying that one time it worked out well.
My problem is its hard for girls to relate to me becouse I've never had a gf in my life, most girls think about relationships constantly so heres one method I'm thinking about using.
Its an opion opener, one that goes like "hey, can I have your opion on this, my buddy is with his new gf, but in a box in his room he keeps the photos and love letters of his previous girl friend, he never looks at them but his current gf is uptight about, she wants him to get rid of them but they hold sentimental value to him, what do you think he should do".


Now I other opion opener I found effective was, a little more simple, "who do you think is more viscous, girls or guys,

which can also be said in many diffrent ways.
One thing I'm recently figured out is a lot girls, don't have alot of girl friends themselves, sometimes in only guys, and their either all to familar with the bore men flict upon them or are not to familar with other girls and their femminist feelings, just their own.

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