So, I found a cute girl on Myspace. HB7.5, HB8 in her pictures where she's dressed nice and wearing make-up. So, I sent her the following text:

"Is that your real hair or a wig?"

She responded back with:
"It's my real hair. It's naturally curly."

I wrote back:

"It looks very nice. Tell me three things about yourself that a guy would find interesting."

I like this line online. It immediately gets the girl to start validating herself.
What are everyone's thoughts? How should I proceed?

Well...does it work? Seems likely you'll get an instant "Why should I?" type of response. You can play off of that but it's a bit...abrupt.

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I dunno, it's kind of a rought transition between the opener and her qualifying.

Besides I think it's a bit early for her to qualify herself. You should transition into something more funny that's on topic about the hair.

It's just way too forced like this.

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It does and it doesn't work, Roads.

For example, I have found a decent response by responding to something in their profile, then asking that question.

Example: A chick writes that she likes chipotle.

I might open with, "Chipotle rocks. I love their guacomole. The shit is addictive. So, tell me a few more interesting things about you."

Alright, the real hair or a wig... used on a 7.5... a bit rough, I'd think. Snipping it right after the disqualification and going into a new thread "So, tell me three interesting things...." is not so awkward if you don't make it awkward. Anything to just get her captivated and break routine, IMO.

Honestly, with online game where you can't smile at her while you deliver that statement "real hair or a wig" (which, isn't even a neg by the way because it doesn't include a backhanded compliment) will activate the occasional massive bitch shield if not performed with care and an immediate snipped thread.

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I'm pretty sure this girl has already flaked. She never responded to my last message. Oh well, time for the next one.
Zip, any suggestions on opening online like that? Women get so many messages, it's really hard to get their attention.
Guys, what has worked for you?

She didn't flake. She wrote me, apologized for not responding so quickly. She told me three interesting things, one being deathly afraid of jellyfish, so I asked why? I asked her what makes her happy, what she deserves, all kinds of eliciting values stuff. I asked her what qualities she looks for in a man and what's important to her in a relationship. She repllied:
"qualities, im most attracted to big arms, i want to be with someone who i know can protect me, granted i can hold my own but sometimes i want to know that someone can stand up for me, these 2 questions kind of go together, i want someone i can trust, someone whos compassionate and has goals in life. communication is also a huge thing. i dont read minds so unless you tell me whats going on how am i supposed to know. i want someone i can be comfortable with, im not a big going out type of person, i would rather lay on the couch and watch movies in my pajamas. i want someone who wants me for me, cause i aint changing i am who i am, someone who wants to be with me and only with me and someone who supports me especially me being in the army cause its one of my biggest passions."

I responded with:
"You're right, security is a huge factor in a relationship. The more you tell me about yourself, the more we have in common. I, too, am not a big going out type of person. I prefer small, intimate settings, like hanging out in a small group, or so, watching a movie or playing games, etc.
Of your qualites, trust, goal-oriented, and comfort. Question one, how do you know you have them? That is, what happens to let you know those qualities are being met in the relationship? Question 2, rank them in order of importance."

She hasn't responded yet, but I feel she's jumping through all of my hoops. How should I proceed to getting her in state, etc. etc.?