Lol so modest, you're awesome Zip.

Wish I had a pointless question to rock out with, but I don't and dinner's ready.

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Haha, modest, that's funny. Cos, if you do this, MODest, you can see that it says 'mod' and Zip's a mod! Haha!! Isn't that funny! You know, cos he said modest, and Zip is a mod! Get it! Hahaaa....ahhh shit...
I find nothing scandalous about that.. I have a best friend.. that happens to be female.. Who is straight.. But obviously there is more to your situation, that you want to be asked. And after all, this is all about asking Zip, so Ill delve in to it.
What are you hiding Coach Ziptastic?

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I'm really interested in body language and its definitions. I want to know more! Is it possible for you to recommend a good book or article?

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All I mean is that a vast majority of PUAs I know will not admit that a straight man and a straight woman can just be friends. Very good friends. Even, oh no, best friends. Ladder theory, sexual tension, biology... it's just always been a hot topic whenever I've seen it brought up.

And as far as what I'm hiding... that would be everything

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The Definitive Book on Body Laguage, by Barbara and Allan Pease and The Body Language Project, available at http://www.thebodylanguageproject.com

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Fair enough. Well for further reference, I'm not one of the vast majority of 'puas'.

Ha, is there a special question which unlock your secrets? Like a magical key!

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This one is pretty straightforward but something that many male PUAs can't give an accurate account of:

What does it like to feel sexually attracted to a guy? It's a really vague question, I know, but I'd be really interested in hearing the perspective of a woman within the community on this issue.

What kind of terms do you see it in? Is it explicitly sexual? Is it emotional? Does it have a visual element to it - what are your fantasies like, what emotionally compells a women to be in to attractive guys on first impressions but will still go out with a completely ugly one and be just as attracted to him?

As a guy, if I see an attractive woman, I mean, if she's really attractive, I will think about just throwing her down right there and fucking her. Do you think like that?

I'd just be really interested to hear anything on this, because it's a hard thing for a guy to try and understand.

- Chris

Good question.

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Thanks Zip! As usual, your advice is money! I wore the trench just the other day, and I got approached by a couple of HB8s (Come to find out they're stewardesses on a lay over flight which got cancelled due to weather.) and they loved it!

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Make the "Ho say no", remember fellas, a "ho" without any instruction is headed for self destruction!

Let them haters do their job, and you work their women like a job!

Don't talk so much, you'll make people hate you!

Kinda random, but I was pondering this the other night.

If you are a guy there are tons of things we can do to improve ourselves and make ourselves more attractive to women. We can dress with better fashion. We can fix our body language. We can heighten our inner game. The list can go on and on and can take a guy from a rating of 1 to a 10.

As for women though... even if they improve themselves greatly and have amazing personalities, if they are still butt ugly then what can they do to improve themselves with men? Men are attracted to women largely upon looks, so maybe a HB1 can workout and diet and use tons of makeup to get herself to an HB5... but what more can women do to improve themselves?

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Do the Impossible
See the Invisible
Raw! Raw!
Fight the Power!

Touch the Untouchable
Break the Unbreakable
Raw! Raw!
Fight the Power!

A chronicle of my reformation from AFC to PUA: http://simpua.livejournal.com/

Sad but true my friend; such is the reality of life. Be lucky you have a chance to get the girls you want. Imagine going through life with your options being that limited and nothing to do about it; one of your biggest desires in life never getting properly fulfilled.

- Chris

Well, here's the thing. I know plenty of women who are not the prettiest girls in the world. But, they are happy, entertaining, amazing women to be around. They manage just fine because sometimes amazing men can get over the fact the girl doesn't look like Angelina Jolie.

Women and men aren't ALL that different when it comes to feeling like they need a connection to the opposite sex. Don't worry about the women who are amazing in every aspect (either by self improvement or by natural personality) but have a not-so-attractive face. They'll be just fine.

The real question is... why are you worried about this? Are you judging yourself for wanting a certain caliber of woman (including a beautiful face)??? Do you feel that deep down, you don't deserve them? That's what you should mull over.

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Great question, and I wanted to properly think about it. I'll give you my best shot at an answer.

For me, and for many women, there are different levels of sexual attraction. I'd bet that it's the same for men who will admit to having an emotional capacity.

If I see a really really hot guy... yes, I'll think about pushing him up against a wall and taking him. I wonder what it would be like to get his clothes off, what his penis looks like, what it would feel like... all of that. Women DO think like this. Not just me. Read "normal" women's blogs. It's filled with this carnal sexual fantasy capacity.

If I meet a normal guy with a fantastic personality, I wonder what kind of person he would be like to date. If I get to know him, I think about how that personality would come out in the bedroom. As I become more attracted to his personality, his social standing, his command of the room and of himself, I become more and more sexually attracted to him. This can even happen if I'm not initially sexually attracted to him. I've had some of the most fulfilling relationships with men I never DREAMED I'd be attracted to. Actually, I've had some of the most sexually fulfilling and continually attracted experiences with people I thought I'd ONLY dig on a friendship level (initial sexual attraction IS NOT everything.)

I've found myself sleeping with someone who I was REALLY initially sexually attracted to and thinking about someone that I wasn't initially sexually attracted to... but the latter sexual attraction had become so strong that I can't stop thinking about the other guy.

To further answer your question, and get back to my original point... there are different categories/layers of sexual attraction:

A. Initial Physical
B. Grown Physical
C. Emotional Connection (which, at least for me, makes sex 10x better)
D. Charismatic Connection

I've had just A. I've had D + C + B. I've had C + B. I've had A + D + C + even more B, if you can believe that.

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Ok, so I finally have a half-sensible question..

Can it still be classified break-up sex if it continues for 6 months after the break up?

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No. Absolutely not.

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