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By now i have been in the game for 1 year 4 months. Great success, with a wide variety of different types of women. Have got some cool story’s to share, and writing my very own eBook on day game and dating which will be complete fall of 2008. Also thinking of starting some free seminars for people in Sydney, just so i can get used to preparing the lesson plans and in field workshops, for both day and night sarging.
So you can say I'm experienced in the field of seduction.
With all this, id like to address a issue that i have personally experimented with and id like to voice and reveal my opinion on the subject of telling women about the game.
First let me start of by saying, if women ask me or if i need to reveal something, its always put in a certain way in which a woman can actually understand what I'm talking about. I never ever brag about it, nor do I act like this seduction community is a big deal. If there is one mind set I hope anyone who reads this takes away, its that its not a big deal. Having said that people contemplate and act as if its some cure for cancer and that they have a secrete key to a society that’s hidden away. First of all this society couldn’t be more main stream, they are making a movie about it for Christ sake. "The Game" is in stores one of the best sellers, no matter what country you go to. Now if i have to tell a woman what i id word it like this
"'I'm very determined on being the best person i can be, and growing into a man with much value to offer his friends and family. I feel as if men in general aren’t living up to their potential, maybe because society hasn’t taught them the way women have been taught over the years, how to act behave, and be. That’s why I’m extremely keen on men’s self improvement, helping guys realise their true potential and to bring it out from within.".
Now if you told women what really happens
"I learn routines in order to pickup chicks and fuck em, i want to get all the hot girls, and be the man with all the little tricks i learn"
Then they will think your weird and this is unnecessary, and your not doing the right thing bra bra..
hares the deal, if we learned even a little about what women do, about how choosy and picky they pretend to be, about all the bullshit and games that they play, we too would be very much against it. But you see women mark men, unlike us men we don’t mark women. Once she’s framed you as the pickup cheesy guy, everything you say will be cheesy and pickup. Even if you tell her something as small as
"I'm in this thing called the game, we learn to be better people. And storys to tell and stuff"
her response right away will be
"you don’t need any of that stuff, your a handsome young man, you can get any girl that you want, why do you even read that stuff, its horrible and cheesy".
Bottom line is this.
You can introduce it gradually to women, make it sound as if your "Hitchens" form the movie, they all seem to love that movie. And you want to invoke a mans real potential. And get them used to the idea, probably after you’ve slept with them, as a sign that your opening up more to them and you trust them.
But there is a great majority of women who really want things to just happen in the moment, they will hate for you to reveal your cards. They will judge you and frame you, and you could end up having to let go of someone you like very much.
here are two examples.
Hb 7 - 7.5
I have a friend called Ashley, cool cute girl, we hung out watched movies, i told her right up I don't do relationships, she respected that, we had sex several times, then we got bored of sex and just became good decent friends, I told her and introduced her to the game, and she thought of me as hitch! Anyway we talked about relationships and people and it was cool we had a good time and a cool respectful mutual understanding of each other.
Hb 8.5 - 9
I have another friend called Emily, or she was my friend, i had to recently let her go. Who I meet and i ran routine game, it was a amazing met up, we clicked, it was just beautiful she was mesmerised and we both lived in the moment. Every time we went out we spend real good quality not quantity time together, it was sensational, and despite having a boyfriend she was ready to get a hotel room with me. I thought because we trust each other so much and because she’s like that, then she’s unique and i can tell her anything.
WRONG.
Women are women, no matter what! I ended up trying to introduce the concept, she hated it, she hates Neil Strauss, she hates the game, she hates the concept everything. Despite falling for all this shit, she hated it, and now she hated what i did, and she pulled back and every time i tryd to do anything i was hit in the face with her protection shield. I wrecked my chances for advancement. She did not allow me to emotionally stimulate her buying temperature, every time i did she would excuse herself to the bathroom call her boyfriend or someone to try to get out of the emotional state i had put her in.
I recently wrote her a email telling her i cant see her anymore, because she still wanted to see me, and spend time with me, but for me it was over...... What? I'm going to just sit there and pretend I have no feelings??? No chance!
Take it from me, this is little games that we have, that women have too. "The game" the movie may be released, but at the same time so is "hes just not that into you".
This is for you gentlemen, not for her.
My personal views.
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Back, starting over as of 2012.
Last edited by Impact on Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:46 pm, edited 2 times in total.
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