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| Nine | PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 1:01 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:37 am Posts: 54 Website: http://www.myspace.com/sippin_on_purp Location: Humble, TX | | Ok, first part. I was texting a friend of mine, K, and we got on the topic of ice cream and she asked for my favs so I told her and she said she wanted to go out and grab some w/ me. I thought cool ok, then another girl, C, told me she'd buy me dinner since she flaked on goin to a movie w/ me. So I'm wonderin' if I should just text C and say, "K wants to grab some ice cream w/ me, you can pay me back before that," or is that tryhard and should I just ditch the flake?
Thanks guys,
Nine
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:15 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Sun Sep 09, 2007 7:17 pm Posts: 4508 Website: http://www.facebook/urbanundergroundculture.com Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | If the other girl is just a friend, then you can use her as social proof/pre-selection, so I could see it working as long as you know how to handle an obstacle and a target at the same time, while escalating with the target. _________________ "The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch
~ Rye
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| cain25 | PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:30 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:58 pm Posts: 113 | | I would take them both, and ask the friend to flirt with you.. Competition makes you the price
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| Nine | PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:38 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:37 am Posts: 54 Website: http://www.myspace.com/sippin_on_purp Location: Humble, TX | | Aight, thanks guys, I'll set it up and let yall know how it works out.
Nine
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| Roads | PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:40 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 7:00 am Posts: 1621 AOL: latergator83 Location: NE | | Social proof will do wonders for you with girl C, but make sure your friend K who is acting as the pivot here knows when to eject so you have isolation with C.
Also make sure to communicate this to K beforehand...most girls, and people in general, hate to be used as springboards for other people's ambitions without being made aware of the fact beforehand. If she does this for you, do something nice for her later.
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| Nine | PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:24 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:37 am Posts: 54 Website: http://www.myspace.com/sippin_on_purp Location: Humble, TX | | I talked to K and she said she was game so I saw C later on and I told her in a C&F way (Your in luck.....ect) and she seemed a lil let down when I mentioned K. Could it be that her self-esteem is too low for pre-selelction? She always seems very comfortable w/ herself. Sorry for all the Q's over this situation.
Nine
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