Hi Guys,

How can I tell if a cute girl wants you (not sexually) or if she is just seeking attention?

I have this beautiful friend, we went out a couple times and kissed but remained friends by her decision. I started to date other women and going serious with one of them. She started being super jealous and suddenly she started being needy and cheesy. She hugs me in a very awkward way and kisses my cheeks, but the look in her face is just different, I tried to kiss her last night but she moved away and she said "no, you are dating another girl, it is wrong".

I don´t know how to really tell if it dawned on her and she loves me or if she just wants my attention back and will dismiss me again when she gets me back.

For the record, I do love her.

My guess is that she would dismiss you again.

Are you having sex with the current girl? Why risk that?

Is the "game playing" girl that much better? Why?

Or... Take a planned break with the new girl. Ask the other one to give you head. See what she says. Then go back to the new girl after the planned break.

We shall see what the others think, but I believe that is last minute resistance. If you weren't dating other women it would be because she doesn't feel like it, or because you guys are friends. Just be strong and remind her that she was the one that wanted to be friends. Don't cave and think you got to get rid of all your other girlfriends just to get a kiss. In short I think she is just jealous. At length whether she likes you or acts like an attention whore is up to what you do. Your the leader of the relationship. If you don't blast through the last minute resistance then she'll mount your balls on her mantle with the words "My friend" underneath.

So you gave up?

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Your first full sentence asks how to tell if a girl wants you, but NOT sexually. Is that a typo? Because if a girl doesn't want to have sex with you its kinda game over.

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This girl dont want an exclusive relationship, she is looking for attention or sexual connection ... but it is just my humble opinion.

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^ if thats the case then she's just attention seeking and doing enough to get the maximum amount of attention from you that she desires.

If you were to no longer continue talking to the girl you're talking to will she still be interested? There goes the answer to your question. She's on the pedestal that you put her on and thats why you can't reach her.

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