I am very confident and the first thing people say to me is i am confident/ladiesman/untrustful? But chick do not trust me? How can i beat that feeling? Should i actualy act low profile?
(I wont change my personality but there is maybe some trick for seem to more trusted guy)
(Trust meant by them is unfaithful)

Opinions?

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A guy that has lots of women wanting his attention wouldn't need to ask this question. So you tell us if being too confident is good or bad.

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What you're describing isn't self confidence, rather it sounds more like arrogance to me.

There are no levels of self-confidence. It's a FEELING, and as such it WILL ebb and flow, to what degree will determine how grounded you are within yourself. If you're experiencing "low self-confidence", its fair to say you're lacking in it, in that particular moment, whereas in other moments u'll experience what can be equated to as "high self-confidence" which is associated with one's perception of competency.

If you're competent because of how you feel about yourself, which isn't contingent on other people's recognition then that is a healthy form of self-confidence. If it is contingent on how others view you, and their approval (or disapproval) of you, then that is confidence based on an externally 'grounded' sense of self and sets you up for validation-seeking behaviors; an issue responsible for 99.99% of the problems guys experience on this board.

After i define their characters , i ask always what can you day about me? They say mostly you are very confident .

I mean being much than others sometimes could be problem.

For example, i speak for most of guys. There is a hb10 and everybody thinks that they can handle her. They do not know how to keep these chicks. Because she is hot and knows her value. Same situation for chicks, if a guy badass and being with many chicks, they think he is unfaithful and not a relationship material.

In contrast to european or american culture, the chicks in my country mostly %90 wanna find a relationship material guys for marriage.

I do not give them the vision about me that i am trustful. Because from outside, i am looking success with chicks about communications but flirting with everybody , who like the type fucks and leaves. They know what i am after, not for relationship just for fuck. So they communicating very well but avoiding to start a relation.

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They have complexes about being not good as i am, i think.

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Have you thought about using your NLP skills to help you out with this?

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They are really helpful. By the way what are you mean man?

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Program them into not having a complex. Isn't NLP good for that?

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I don't think you're confident dice, I think you're oblivious.

You try really hard to look as if you know what you're talking about. On this forum you do it by piggybacking and mimicking our veterans, in real life you probably do it through forced arrogance.

We can tell. And we don't have this little thing called female intuition. Women don't trust you because you're trying to sell yourself for way more than you're worth.

With this topic you're like the guy in "40 year old virgin", where he tries to explain to his experienced friends what sex feels like, yet he never had it himself.
Fake it all you want as far as I'm concerned. But don't try to sell your bullshit to the guys you learned it from.

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Yea it is your opinion. I think you sit all the day in front of the computer and waiting for your parents go to bed for jerking you of.

Person's words are his mirrors/reflections, sad but true.

I wont say i fucked chicks more than you masturbated yourself.

I think if you even fucked couple of chicks, they were just cheap fucks. I know many romanian chick who are getting down for a package of cigarette.

P.S. your message guide? Is really sucks with a fucking bad humor sense.

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Hey man, if that's the extent of your mental acuity fine, try to insult your way out of it.
Word to wise though, the last "Master Hero PUA Coach" who tried that ended up destroying every shred of his credibility. Not that he had much to begin with. I kinda miss dtrak sometimes.

Anyway, it's relatively hard to feel any sense of insult by your lack of appreciation towards my texting guide. Given that you can barely put two words together in an attempt of forming a coherent sentence, you probably didn't understand half of it.

Sit your xenophobic ass down and don't get into a dick measuring contest with someone who can beat your ego to a pulp.

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Your text guide is wonderful for a newbie, who wants to learn something from mistakes.

No sham, it is not my mother language so i think i can make mistakes, so instead to be an asshole, why do not you try yo understand it or anyway you can ask.

You are right at something, i do not make a contest. It is relatively wasting of time , up to who you challenge with.

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Are any of these comments stopping the women that are saying them from sleeping with you?

If no? Since you're a ladies man why are you letting this concern you.

But to your question: character is what we do when no one is watching. Everything we do in our life whether or not in public or private will be become a part of our presence/aura/vibe - basically what people/women feel from us when we come around. They won't be able to pin point what it is, but you can get a vibe from a person and no whether or not you like them. And your vibe comes from what you do.

Are you trust worthy in your private life? Are you sleazy? Are you respectful of others and their property? All dark comes to light, and all of our actions will show up on our vibe. Change your private actions and you'll change what people begin to say about you. But once again, its a process, not and event. It'll take time.

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Thc Eddie, i target always i much as i can get and wanna get all chicks. And other thng is, i am happy with my personality, just wanna better show myself to other, by the other words, i do not want to show this people as untrustful. So the process is continuing.

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