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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 5:47 am 
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I went in, my body language was tense. My voice was stiff, my friend thought I was experienced at game so it added pressure on me, I felt judged. I always say positive things about my game but in reality it's not where it's at and I don't got girls or ones I like. I did do some awesome things but in front of my friend I felt like a fake.

He introduced me to this one girl, I danced wirh her, joked a bit, and I asked how much she weighs, she said it was offensive (she was drunk), I picked her up and she then left and said she had to smoke. Eventually she kept dancing with other guys and would glance over at me for validation I suppose, I didn't look. She danced near me, I was sitting down and she came next to me and asked about my hair asked if it's natural, I joked and why can't it be? Then I joked and said it was a wig and she started touching my hair. I pulled her away, maybe to harsh and said hands off the merchandise and after that she left. It was done light hearted.

The place was very loud and I didn't like it, I felt like everyone there was very unenlightened and unintelligent. I don't feel comfortable at clubs yet that's where the hit girls are at.

I was very well dressed.

I just feel like I failed, and like I don't understand game. Yes, I felt unworthy of the girls there. And as for outer game, I couldn't communicate properly to them. I want to give you the correct understanding. My social skills were bad at first and got better but in all situations I just wasn't saying the right things. One girl was touching my butt in line I joked for her too stop she laughed and then I said do I look like a whore? I feel violated. They took it the wrong way almost like I called them that.
Like I just didn't know how to begin a conversation and how long to weight to escalate and where to do it.

Basically, I need an understanding of how to gain attraction to a girl
Whenever I open my mouth that's where it goes wrong.

So I kinda need a system. I'm very logical, so some steps to keep in mind can help. I'm not saying I want someone to do the work for me, once I get an ounce of guidance I will plow with it. I'm just lost. I'll see a girl and just have no clue what to say, how to be funny, or how to attract her. If someone can help me understand this you'd be literally saving my game. Thanks, you guys are the best.


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Basically, I need an understanding of how to gain attraction to a girl
You have that already. And here's why:
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He introduced me to this one girl, I danced wirh her, joked a bit, and I asked how much she weighs, she said it was offensive (she was drunk), I picked her up and she then left and said she had to smoke. Eventually she kept dancing with other guys and would glance over at me for validation I suppose, I didn't look. She danced near me, I was sitting down and she came next to me and asked about my hair asked if it's natural, I joked and why can't it be? Then I joked and said it was a wig and she started touching my hair. I pulled her away, maybe to harsh and said hands off the merchandise and after that she left. It was done light hearted.
Your only fuckup was playing hard to get when she was so obviously into you. She came back for more. Having them come back for more is your biggest green light ever, and you know that. But instead of isolating and putting her hands on the merchandise, you took them off. And that's fear of success.
You know you had it. But as you say you don't really feel worthy of it.
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So I kinda need a system. I'm very logical, so some steps to keep in mind can help.
You're a man. Of-course you're very logical, welcome to the rest of us. Game however is all about how you make a woman feel. So you can throw logic out the window. You need to learn how to stimulate emotion.
That's the difference between someone who understands "game" and someone who doesn't.

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