Any advice on telling a girl you like her eventhough you got a girlfriend? I got this girl in my social circle that i really like. At the beginning she asked me a lot of questions about my age, how long ive been in a relationship, how many girls i had before my current relationship etc, she seemed into me but lately she has been kissing this other guy in our group circle.

It seems like she accepted the fact i would not break-up with my girlfriend and moved on to another guy who is single and how can i blame her. Eventhough i do not see him and her work as they got a pretty big age difference and he is like a 7 and she is a 8-9 but it does hurt me a little when i see them kissing.

I feel like telling her i like her changes nothing as i got a girlfriend and if she kisses another guy with me there i don't think she likes me that much anymore but not telling her keeps fucking my mind as i do really like her and want to tell her this just to see if she likes me back maybe? Might be an ego thing idk.

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You had you shot and you didn't take it. Move on.

Next time show some interest back when you're shown interest.

Also, you don't tell girls you like them. You show it.

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I dont know though RC as she did mention she does not want to be in a relationship right now so me showing a lot of interest back which i did and still do would not have got me a relationship i think, i try to flirt all the time but there is only so much you can do when you got a relationship, i can't go a 100% so usually i just have a very fun time interacting with everybody including her but thinking about it it does seem like i am friendzoning myself.

Your advice on moving on is hard as fuck as i see a lot of good things in this girl, i can't help it and i rather hear a hard NO i don't like you instead of never knowing how she feels about me before moving on.

I understand you don't say to a girl you like her but you show it, but in my case i always have been flirty and making jokes like i love you and your not that ugly so no matter how hard i try to show i really like her she will think its just another joke so to me saying it in a serious matter like, we would have been a great team, to bad iam in a relationship feels like the only way to know if she is remotely into me or not.

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So, you want to swing to a new tree, but you are not brave enough to let go of the branch you cling to, just in case you slip your grip on the next one. Typical.
You asked for advice because you don't know what you are doing. R.C. Knows.


#1 reason some guys suck at this!

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Let go of branch #1 then, Braveheart.

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Then what? After long thinking about this i don't want to jump trees and hurt someone who does not deserve to be hurt. All i want is to get an answer from a girl i fell in love with whether she is into me or not so i can stop having these thoughts and go back to good sleep.

I would regret not knowing if i moved on. Outcome of the question whether she likes me does not change anything, if she says i love you and want to make babies with you i would still not jump trees as i got a good life as it is, its just the not knowing that is killing me here.

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Why are you approaching this subject as if a relationship is something that just happens, out of the blue?
First there's attraction. That leads to interest, which leads to sex. If those are great and you enjoy each other's company, then you can maybe consider relationships, no sooner.

That being said I fail to see the relevance in the quoted part.
Yes, you can. And you should. I'm not gonna get into the subject of cheating, but if you're gonna do it you need to be smart about it. If you're unhappy with your girl, break it off. If you are happy but are feeling that craving for something new, make sure she doesn't find out. It really is that simple.
And yes, go 100%. That's how things happen.
You didn't go 100% here and look where that got you.
Yeah, it's hard. And that's what happens when you don't take action. You're left wondering "what if". So keep that in mind next time you decide to let an opportunity slide by.
That's called flirting.

Escalate with her. Ask her out. Seduce her. Turn her on. Kiss her. That's called making your intentions known.

I'm telling you man, you'll be feeling like shit either way. You'll feel like shit if she says she never liked you and you'll feel even worse if she says she did but you never did anything about it.

I know, it sucks. And it always will when you don't go for what you want at the appropriate time and place.

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Her tits? Her ass? What exactly did you fall in love with?
I have apples, lots of apples, and they are good, they satisfy me, I'll settle for these apples. But I sure would love to try an orange. Just one orange. One sexy ass looking orange. But it's so risky!

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Thanks for the reply, so i guess there is no recovering from not taken action at the right time? Attraction that once was there is now dead and could not come back since she seem into this other guy right now? Her sister told my friend that they were playing around for a while already but last saturday for the first time i saw them making out and it kinda did broke my heart eventhough i can't blame her, its my fault for not taking action at the right time and now only way is to move on eventhough were like "friends" so i will see her from time to time when going out.

Staying friends with these people does not feel good to me as it hurts me to see her and another guy kiss and flirt so friday when we go to a club/party i feel like i have to ask in a serious matter how she feels about me, it will hurt either way but living without knowing hurts me even more or is there a better way?

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Then follow R.C.'s advice forward and conquer .

Just be forewarned the apple tree branch may become slippery! Enjoy your orange.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.