So this is the first time I've met a girl off Tinder. I haven't even met her yet I've just arranged to go round her place tomorrow and have sex. Since it's the first time I've done something like that I can imagine an awkwardness when I walk into her house and we make small talk.

Anyone got any advice or want to share a similar experience?

Does she know this is a booty call?

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Always be prepared. Bring some protection with you lol

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Yeah she knows.

When she opens the door...pull her in for a hug and kiss her on the cheek just to set the foundation of your escalation. Bring wine. Have her give you the tour. Stop the tour at her bedroom.

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Ok, so this is actually my expertise.

Meditate for a while in your head before you go - what the exp should be like. An experienced/valuable man does not rush things. He takes his time, knows how to push a woman's buttons (sometimes thru trial and error) and operates smooooothhhly. Not rigidly!

Aggression on a first meet has rarely worked well for me. Be friendly and test the waters. Try to make a common connection with the girl first. Good conversation/humor shows that you're a well balanced and valuable male and I'm pretty sure is a turn on for most women - that doesn't mean talk about the scientific process. After some good talk, smiles, laughs, etc (classic IOIs) go for light touch (arms/legs). I would not go for a kiss/tight hug right off the bat but agree with the gifts. Small trinkets will do enormous things for their emotional circuits. The one and only woman I ever gave a first date gift to (by accident) took a long time to get rid of lol...

You both already plan to spend time with each other, so you have to do very little now not to fuck up. If you get there and she is there and you are together alone; don't panic or rush ... all you have to do is escalate slowly after you're comfortable with each other. Showing restraint is 10x more sexy to women, bc most can't do it. You've heard of cat & mouse? I frequently pull back in every aspect (texting, emotionally, physically) I can with women bc they are unsuspecting and not used to it and it TURNS THEM ON.

And for god's sake, if you're not attracted to her, please don't escalate.

Oh...my fault. I thought this was a booty call.

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While I am not sure. IMO, you can only booty call someone you've actually slept with before.

I guess if you want to get all technical, a booty call saying come over now for sex.

This meetup both him and her know it's about sex. Even though it's your area of expertise, you are taking a risk by slow starting because she is expecting sex. If you get there and she's already in the mood, you want to take advantage of that mood. If she's not in the mood, she's going to still want to remain consistent with the original premise of why they're meeting. You can bring gifts if you want, but it's not necessary.

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I think both advice is sound advice, but it is tailored to the individual. Could someone in this situation come in guns blazing and instantly fuck? Yes. Could someone else move slightly slower and fuck? Yes. what works for me is to say hello and give a quick hug. she has a picture of what you are like in her head, so I think it's best to talk to her for a few minutes so she can quickly become comfortable and she can make sure you are what she expected. Then she should reflect back any escalation you use whatsoever and you will likely be fucking her within 20 minutes.

Both advice is correct but it depends on the style of the person receiving it.

I don't think both approaches are correct.

You don't have to go in guns blazing but slow playing it like that will definitely kill the mood. There's a time and place to be a tease, to show restraint, to blah blah blah, but when she's expecting to get fucked and you're over there talking about childhood memories.. yeah, no.

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What a girl says online, over text, a day before, heck 5 mins before you arrive, has no guarantee of her mindstate when you get there. She could be horny all day and dtf, when you ring the doorbell rings she could freak out over sleeping with a stranger. You gotta go in there being ready to be aggressive, but also being able to calibrate. Be energetic and flirtatious from the get go, but read whats going on. If she comes to door with a sexy smile, squeeze her and take her. If she comes to the door looking a bit nervous, ease into it but still be flirtatious. Don't go in there thinking she's just going to be down. She could be from the minute she opens the door, or you may have to warm her up and make her comfortable.

So, someone says go in hot, someone says go in slow, I said it depends on what kind of person you are, someone said it depends on how the girl is feeling. These things are all true or can be true imo

It's not a matter of going in "hot or cold." It's a matter of going in "warm" and letting her know that there's no cooling you down and it's only going to get hotter.

So, you could just walk in and pin her against the wall. She would probably really like it. It makes a girl feel extremely sexy when you do shit like that. But is that going to be something you're going to feel natural doing? Most likely not because you're asking this question

Play cool. Ask her to show you around. When she shows you her bedroom (if she wants to fuck, she will.) lay (don't sit!) down on her bed. If she's got a TV in her room, ask what movies she's got. Get her to turn on a movie. Doesn't really matter what movie it is. 9 times out of 10, we usually won't even make it past the opening credits. Otherwise I'll just turn some music on on my phone... And progress things from there my friend.

She knows what's up. Just make her comfortable doing what she's doing and she'll want to do it again. Then you'll have a fuck buddy.