Seeing so many ultra feminine qualities in younger males lately - in dress, talk, overall demeanor and more - with zero signs of it turning back the other way.

It is quite jaw dropping how quickly this transition occurred, certainly within just the last 10 years.

Since women are wired to want masculinity, this can only be a good thing for actual men.

And...


Women May Be Becoming Men.


My observation: Although the main character in 50 shades is needy, controlling and overall posses some really bad qualities.. The reason women loved him, and why the bought this book and watched a movie is simple:

In today's world full of pussified man there comes a guy (Grey) who also posses some serious ALPHA characteristics. He's dominant "all the time", he places women on the 2nd place, they are nothing to him but toys to make him feel better, he doesn't do things women do (talk about feelings to much, etc.). THE BAD GUY thesis.


My point is this: More and more men today are trying to accommodate women to much, putting their own wishes, desires and goals on the second place. They are not anymore what men is supposed to be, dominant (most of the time), congruent with his WANTS and NEEDS, they're tolerating insolent women behavior (who are becoming more masculine) because they're afraid of losing the special one.

But... It's not bad for everyone:

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Is it a surprise? You have a media with a feminazi agenda, lot's of guys being brought up by their mom in a single parent household without a strong male role model and on top of that how many primary school teachers are men?

Very, very few. These pussified guys are being trained from a very young age.

The red pill is the answer....

I know women who like skinny men in skinny jeans and other feminine qualities... Consider the social conditioning effect of celebs like 1 direction on the younger generation and more women will be attracted to that type of male

I don't really get what are you saying, but oceanx put it nicely at the end: Women are wired to want masculinity. So, if women has to choose between masculine man and then one wearing super skinny jeans and acting girly, the actual man will prevail.

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Man I see it everyday on Campus, its sad to say I was like that just to fit in my freshman year. I blame it on the entertainment industry. The moment I stop watching cable television is the moment I realize how feminine I look and dressed. I believe Eddie Fews actually wrote about the topic it's a good read.

I don't mind it. More for me.

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Yeah it makes me sick. The infection in the Bay Area is terrible. The problem is the whole culture and change has made me not attracted to the American women either. It's definitely been a ten year maybe even more gradual change.

There is a lot of talk about this topic going on the past few years. The google search that inspired my first international trip was something like "why do American women suck these days"

There is still some good pickns down in the Southeast if you plan to find quality women in America. The Northeast and California are by far the worst ime.

When I go to EEurope in the Spring, I'm not looking back, exotic women have treated me too good over the years

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Lol. No need to panic. Male and female style have always been changing and swapping between the sexes. There was a time when men wore wigs. Bell bottom pants. Jerry curls. Pony tails. One direction=Backstreet boys back in the day. If you take a look back at history, we're really no worse than decades before. Things swing back. When the fem style is oversaturated, more masculine style will come back. And then swing back again. Take a look back for decades, the fashion was even more feminine and the demeanors matched too. There has always been periods where the "pretty boy" was in style and then the mans man came back. Lol, anyone remember when Hugh Grant was a sex symbol? Prince? David Bowie? Queen? Boy George? You'd be hard pressed to find more feminine men than back in the day. Then it swung to men like Brad Pitt and G Clooney. Now it's One direction. Not really that bad when you consider it. Men in the past, were WAY more metrosexual during certain decades than today. By a loooong ways. And you know what, in all of those decades people thought it would just get worse. No different that today.