So I have been talking to this girl and she is showing signs that she likes me however I have been to afraid to make a move. Tonight she came over and had a couple drinks and then her "friend" who is a guy picked her up. Before she left I noticed that she took her bra off.

I am assuming she is going to bang that dude.

She offered to come over tomorrow and cook me dinner.

Should I just cut off all contact with her? I feel I am getting emotionally attached and don't want to get hurt by this girl.

Any help is appreciated.

She may have noted you weren't making a move and covertly texted this dude who replied, "ok, but no bra."

If you've been pretending to be her bff, she will be startled if you make a move so show some empathy and don't do it in that circumstance.

If your meetings have been 100% friendly with zero escalation and zero flirting, then you are deep in the friend zone in which case, move on and start meeting more women.

IF she already knows your intent and the two of you have a flirtatious vibe around each other, make a move already.

In either case, MEET MORE WOMEN so you don't continue to be affected by the one itus you are currently experiencing.

Well she always texts me first she says she misses me and sends hearts... Every time we are together she makes an excuse to touch me. I never escalate with her due to fear of losing her. I know she has had a reputation in the past with guys when we were in highschool.

I just want to know is there any hope? Or should I move on and never see or text her again? I can't stand the thought of her hanging out with me and then banging other guys.

I could be 100% wrong but am pretty sure right now she sees you as a friend only. That's ok though don't beat yourself up about it. But if this is in fact the case it's best for her if you don't shock the hell out of her by making some major move.

In light of this, if she does see you as a friend only, I would move on and meet other women and stop seeing her. And when she sees you or hears about you with all these new women, she will very possibly you in a brand new light.

On the other hand if you want to get with her, you could show your interest in her incrementally with very slow escalation, and I mean very slow over a bit of time simply because RIGHT NOW SHE MOST LIKELY HAS YOU FRAMED AS A FRIEND. If you can take her rejecting you that is. Because she may brush you off. It's not like a normal pickup scenario where the girl sees you as a potential sex partner from the start.

Usually it's not worth it to try to remove this frame because usually once the frame is set, it is set. Hence my suggestion to meet more women either way.

Either way the future is bright man, plenty of women out there to meet.

Fucks sake just man up already. You know what your problem is so just grow some balls dammit.

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When she comes tomorrow to cook you dinner, you just say "Can I help you with something?", then slowly hug her from behind, place your cheek over her shoulder, if she doesn't say anything else kiss her on the neck.

If she doesn't say anything that may indicate she doesn't like it, postpone making dinner to some other night and this time take her bra by yourself this time.


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If it fails, than do what oceanx said and meet other women.

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Please never ever EVER hug a girl from behind unless there's some form of relationship established between you two.

It's legit the creepiest thing when a guy does that straight out of the blue.

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I agree. If they are friends per se, or if they were in public place or something, but....

OP said that more than often she is the one making all the excuses to touch him, plus she invited herself at his home to cook dinner and she sends him hearts...

Light hug in this particular situation shouldn't come of as surprise, I think she wants him to finally do something. Don't you agree.

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I do agree, but I think it'd be advisable for him to do so in ways less likely to creep her out.

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Okay. I'm starting to forget not all of us are the same and that's my bad for giving potentially hazardous advice.

I usually take "everything" as IOI and I'm bold when approaching, I figured girls get turned on more when they feel desired in such a nonchalant way. If they reject me for whatever reason I back off and try again later.

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Any advice on pounding this girl would be useless. You wouldn't apply it.

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Some of the guys who come on here are hilarious, dude seriously.... this video will explain everything! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Niu9Zmrx0p8

Okay but why would she come to my place wearing a bra and 20 minutes before leaving to meet with her guy "friend" take it off? Is that her way of getting sexually ready for him? What do you guys think? It's been rattling my mind all day. Please help.

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Why does it matter? She didn't take it off for your benefit. You're not doing anything with her that requires the removal of her bra. All this is doing is causing you to speculate what she is doing with another guy when you are blowing your own opportunities with her. Quit wasting time thinking about stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with you and make the things that you want to happen happen for you.

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