Hi Guys
Was just gong through some movies *list here : Top 10 Best PUA Movies Of All Time

Now just like the forums there are contradicting messages in some of theses moveis as well.
Like fro example the Tao of Steve he always recommends going in with a mindset of not thinking of sleeping with he girl as girls can smell agenda from far away.

What advice would u give to someone watching these movies. Should I actually do think like that "no i just want to hang out and have some fun; maybe even befriend her". Will that cause the girl to put me in the friendzone. Although some styles are cool in the moves (openers, jokes and so on) the basic philosophy is quiet contrary to the PUA principle of going all in an making intentions clear.

What do u think guys ?

Hollywood movies are just that - Hollywood movies. Pieces of fiction with maybe a hint of reality.
TBQH that is some of the worst pickup advice i have ever heard. I cannot even put in to words how off that advice is.
No. You need to demonstrate in a socially calibrated manner that you are a man whose intentions are most definitely not to become her bff. You do this through your eye contact, body language, kino, tonality. They are extremely intuitive and they know. If she rejects, she rejects; at least you'll know and won't be wasting your time barking up the wrong tree.

You've got enough friends (I am assuming), you are not interested in her as purely a friend. You like what you see in this girl and you're going to have a chat with her and see if she is cool enough to hang out with you. Over 90% of the communicating of your intent will be nonverbal.

Women WANT to be desired by a man whom they also desire.

Find some pickup guy to follow on Youtube who you resonate with. Follow his techniques and you'll be much further ahead than you otherwise would be. Save netflixing the PUA films for entertainment purposes.

I would recommend Alfie instead.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrBEk826ueA

pay attention to his way of handling a shit test without saying a word.

I heard the new Star Wars is pretty awesome.

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I don't particularly like watching Hollywood movies for the same point as Oceanx was hinting - these are pieces of fiction. They are made to appeal to the masses, and usually have a "happy ending" (not the good kind) involved where the PUA realises the "error of his ways" and settles down to have 2.5 kids and a house in the suburbs. Hollywood movies are ALWAYS based on a formula, even the ones "based on a true story" that is designed to get as many people to watch as possible as opposed to being helpful.


When I'm hanging out with a female, and want to push things further, my mind is NOT on befriending her. You should be willing to push things but NOT be dependent on the outcome - e.g. even if you push for a same night lay, if it doesn't happen you shouldn't be all distraught and upset. You should make your intentions CLEAR and be willing to escalate but respect her decision that it may not happen tonight - or tomorrow. Have fun, exist in the moment, and roll with the punches. Something like the principles of jeet kune do - you adapt and work with the situation at hand.