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PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2015 8:18 am 
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Hey Brothers, Whats up?

There is this girl on crossfit I've know for about 3 months (HB8-9) she's very outgoing, we chat alot, but I've never put any sexual tension on our conversations (not at this level).
Three days ago on crossfit, I had just finished my workout, she was sitting next to an milf(not so good looking) they were whispering to each other and giggling while looking at my direction, I was randomly practicing some lifts when she calls me;
HB: Can I make an indiscreet question? *giggles
Milf: Are you really... *little ashamed
Me: Just ask it.
HB: Do you wear any underwear?
Milf: Jesus... *dying of shame
Me: ... I do, why? *smirk
HB: Oh wow... cuz that volume is pretty big...
Milf: *Hiding her face with her hands, laughing
Me: Hahahaha, really? I think it is pretty normal, it is for me at least...
HB: *raises eyebrows
Then someone call me and I leave right after.

Two days later, she text me, asking if I'm going to this party, I say maybe. The exact text was;
Me: Maybe, thinking about it...
HB: Let's gooo!
HB: Go with only your briefs hahahah
HB: Women will be all looking and wondering
HB: "Is he that big??"
HB: Hahahahaha
HB: I'm laughing so much
Me: Hahahahahaha really?? I can't tell...
HB: Mr. pocket rocket
HB: Bahhaahha
HB: Damn I laughed so hard! That woman was terrified when you said
HB: That it was normal
HB: Jahahaha
Me: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
HB: I'm kidding, dont get mad
Me: Relax, it's all good
HB: Sure, anyone packing 12 inches should be all good
Me: LOL, damn you missed by a couple of inches :wink:
HB: Hahahaha I'm kidding!!
Then the conversation takes other direction.

I honestly didn't want to talk about my dick, but here we go...
My penis has about 7inch, erect. Dunno if thats big or not, maybe above average, idk (I'm caucasian btw). It was not the first time someone commented on my "package", almost all did indirectly, not like this girl did.

I didn't posted this to brag or whatever. I'm a bit confused here, because last party we were in, I tried to approach her, get some conversation going, but she wasn't reciprocating, almost pretending I wasn't there. Maybe she was too focused on knowing the people that she talked only on FB, idk (it was an crossfit members meet up/party)

I want to know what should you guys do after this. I think this is a "green light" to move things forward sexually, maybe. I pretty much imagined a funny scenario, would go like me staring at her rack, or ass (she has a big booty) then she asks "what are you doing", I reply "You were checking my package, what's wrong with looking at your rack?" :lol: :lol: :lol:

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2015 11:15 am 
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YOU: What day and time are you free this weekend?
HER: Yadah. Yadah. Yadah.
YOU: I need to cook some [spaghetti/lasagna] for my mom. I want it extra special. Can you help me shop for the best ingredients at grocery xyz?
HER: Yadah. Yadah. Yadah.

Keep your language clean. Let her do all of the dirty language. In your apartment when she starts to cook, go from behind and grind your package on her FedEx. Take it from there.

Key Words: Isolate her to your apartment. Let her seduce herself. Escalate.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2015 1:11 pm 
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What more of a "green light" do you need?

You could have whipped that fucking thing out right there and they would have jumped on it lol c'mon man. These aren't even "subtle" hints. They are blatantly obvious.


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If this is the place that we teach "Assume attraction" why would this even be a question?

The past is irrelevant. Worry about right now.

She's already put herself on offense, so let her come to you at the party. She will.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2015 3:35 pm 
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I'm just here to bash on you for calling crossfit a workout.

No, but seriously, you don't need any advice. This is ridiculous. Go to the party, your Pocket Rocker will thank you later.

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Yep. As one poster already suggested, ASK HER OUT.

THat's how u'll know.


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Thank you all guys. I'll post the outcome later.


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Bros, here I am again.

Party was yesterday, nothing happened. Yes, really.

Well, right before the party, she seemed all interested via texting, saying she couldn't sleep much because she was anxious, asking what time I would be there, what I was gonna do after etc.

Party started, I get in a little late, she arrives even later, about an hour later. I was arriving to the party and I asked her via text if she could bring me a pack of smokes, she replied cheerfully;
HB: Yes, yes sure. You forgot to buy? Hahahaha
Me: Yep, bring me some, gonna pay you later :P
HB: Oohh, right
HB: Of course I will *Clawhanx*!
HB: Ahahhaha
HB: It's all good
HB: Are you already there??
-
I arrive, she gets an hour later, now things become a little confusing for me... She starts hugging all our friends as she encounters them, smiling as she does it, then she approach me from my side, not even a hug or a kiss on the cheek. She hands me the pack, barely making eye contact (I think to myself, really??);
HB: Here, you don't need to pay me. *neutral expression
Me: What? Why is that?
HB: No worries, keep it. *looking down as she left
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Then things happen all over again.
I approach, make some jokes, she laughs, jokes back a little. But all with neutral body language, not a single sign of interest, she was acting polite as fuck. Sitting side by side almost 90 degree, I begin doing some kino, touching the arms, then hands, then knee, then belly almost pelvis(her shirt showed the lower part of her belly), then thighs, she let me touch her at will, she didn't showed discomfort nor negative body language. But you know what, she didn't even touched me back nor gave a sign of interest... Yep.
However we were on a group of friends, we were not isolated. The only thing she did was make jokes, some about me, at best about my dick, some bold comments about it though, "His thing must swing hard on the floor when he get the briefs down HAHAHA", "I think you cannot fuck a virgin, you would destroy her" ... Yeah, really.
And before you bash me that I could fuck her right then and there, she's a silly person, jokes about almost everything and everybody, no censorship on her part. She said those comments not meaning it, I know it, she said it just to make others laugh. Only being there you could realize it., I didn't feel like isolating her. I got a little pissed inside from not getting any return in interest, I left the group and got to other groups from time to time for some minutes.
I was almost giving up on her, then she passes by me, just glance and say goodbye as leaving looking down. Come on... not even a little hug. That got me more pissed inside. To turn out she has gone to another venue, alone. And that it was boring as fuck (her girl friend commented on it today).

Turns out I landed an 8 milf later on the same party (almost twice my age, I'm 21), using the same freaking "method", as she was on "offensive". So it was not a total loss night after all...

I don't get it what happened with the HB, I don't know what to do now, things like this shit never happened with me before, I don't know if I made any mistake, was confused with her attitude, I had no clue. Maybe she's a crazy, maybe I'm in the friend zone. I don't freakin know.

I'm open for sugestions and critics. Maybe I can get more direct on the approach next time. What would you guys sugest? Freeze her out? Go more direct?
I think it's not worth that much investment, she's not even my type, she's just hot. I can get other women as hot as she is with less bullshit and much much less work. But hitting that piece of ass wouldn't hurt either. :wink:

Appreciated for you guys to read it all, looking forward to replies. Cheers! :!:


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Honestly she sounds like an idiot.

She's not worthy of sex, really why even bother with someone who clearly enjoys head games and is passive aggressive as f*ck.

i think she's doing it because she gets off on keeping a guy 'off centre' and nothing more. Either get her out and whip your dick out and tell her to put her money where her mouth is, or forget her and move on and stop f*cking with headcases.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 14, 2015 7:23 am 
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Honestly she sounds like an idiot.

She's not worthy of sex, really why even bother with someone who clearly enjoys head games and is passive aggressive as f*ck.

i think she's doing it because she gets off on keeping a guy 'off centre' and nothing more. Either get her out and whip your dick out and tell her to put her money where her mouth is, or forget her and move on and stop f*cking with headcases.
Yeah, I realize it now that you mentioned it, shit's on her, not me.

Anybody disagree?


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I dont know if you were expecting her to come out and say fuck me now or something at this party. Maybe she's just messing with you on purpose, maybes she's just joking and it doesnt mean anything, maybe she wants to sleep with you but wouldnt be touching up on you at a party. I don't know. But if you want to fuck her, the moves you made at this party werent gonna give you a sign of anything either way. Ask her to come over for x bs reason and start kissing her. That's all I'd do for an answer. With women it can be confusing alot of the time. But you just gotta make a move, a REAL move, not this bs touching her legs at a party thing as if thats gonna do something. The party shouldnt have been a factor. You text her already. You shouldve just texted her come over.


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When guys are expecting something, I bunch of girls turn into head game mode and the opposite it happens. I see it all the time when you've got things really sexual with a girl and then they change their mind at the last minute.

Remember women are in the moment creatures. If a girl says to a guy, I want to have sex with you, she probably means it in that moment in time. For a guy that hears this, it could be 10 years later but a guy will logically think she still wants him.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 14, 2015 9:59 am 
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This reads like a woman's post.

Basically you got pissed because she didn't hug you. You touched her a few times but you waited on her to make the "big moves".
Just invite her for a drink. You'll get your answer.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 14, 2015 10:50 am 
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I dont know if you were expecting her to come out and say fuck me now or something at this party. Maybe she's just messing with you on purpose, maybes she's just joking and it doesnt mean anything, maybe she wants to sleep with you but wouldnt be touching up on you at a party. I don't know. But if you want to fuck her, the moves you made at this party werent gonna give you a sign of anything either way. Ask her to come over for x bs reason and start kissing her. That's all I'd do for an answer. With women it can be confusing alot of the time. But you just gotta make a move, a REAL move, not this bs touching her legs at a party thing as if thats gonna do something. The party shouldnt have been a factor. You text her already. You shouldve just texted her come over.
No, I wasn't expecting her to say "fuck me now". I was just expecting the kind of interest she showed on phone 1 hour earlier so that I could escalate things up. I have never tried to KC an HB that had showed zero receptivity to a kiss, that's a bit much try hard for me, and could get you in trouble these days if it goes very wrong. By real moves you mean only KC? Are there other "real moves"?
BTW those bs touching moves helped me got an milf. I guess maturity difference is the case here.
Thanks for the reply.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 14, 2015 10:55 am 
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When guys are expecting something, I bunch of girls turn into head game mode and the opposite it happens. I see it all the time when you've got things really sexual with a girl and then they change their mind at the last minute.

Remember women are in the moment creatures. If a girl says to a guy, I want to have sex with you, she probably means it in that moment in time. For a guy that hears this, it could be 10 years later but a guy will logically think she still wants him.
Yeah man, I'm a bit aware of that. But nah, I'm good. That shit was a bit extreme for me, like scalding to freezing in seconds.


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