Girl at work for some reason DOES NOT like me(non sexual way)she's not aggressive or anything, but you can tell she just does not like me, she makes really poor eye contact and will avoid looking at me if possible. Shes super quiet with me, some what flirty with other colleagues, i thought maybe because i was new or something, but new people have come in and shes totally fine with them.

Just super bizarre, we can do an 8 hour shift and probably say about 10 words to each other. The only time she talks to me is when other people make a joke about me or ask why i haven't done a certain task.

anyone ever had this?

How is this pickup related OP?

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on the surface i guess it doesn't seem related. In reality the point im making is, new people have come in after myself and slotted in better than myself. Which is a by product or another symptom of my poor conversation when it comes to gaming.

I notice the guys who get the most girls seem to have the slickest conversation (at work)and there's always a hint of sexual tension. With myself its just flat, like its conversation for conversation sake(like for being polite sake i guess). I can feel the lack of sexual energy or real engaging conversation when i speak. But even more so with this girl which she just seems to expose it even more.

What you're saying is that this boils down to you. If you can see what the problem is, don't sit there and let it continue to be a problem.

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As if you never met a person you simply didn't like.

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Lol

You and your work stories man.

Do you like everybody? Probably not. So why would you expect everyone to like you? Fuck her(metaphorically). If she doesn't like you, thats her choice, let her and move on with your life. The moment you stop caring, she'll start to like you more.

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I guess he just wants TheQuietLife...

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I've already used this joke before...

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Oh Drag.

Fuck my life

Maybe it was subliminally embedded into my brain.

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It sounded much better when Drag said it.

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Do I know you?

The big point I think I'm trying to make is, some people fit in super easily , regardless of gender/race/ social life style and some don't (I seem to be to in the latter) you know almost like success breeds success. The reason I make such a point of good conversation skills is because its core to game. The people who I see have good conversation just generally( in an non sexual way) seem
To excel in game. It's a transferable skill. The reason i mention work is cause that's where you spend most of your time and I see similarities in my game convo as my general life convo. Seems to be flat lacks humour or real engagement that i see in others.

It's like when newbies say oh I need to know this or that but it's more than that. Being attractive isn't a trick it's part of your identity and your natural habits.

You are right on this one.

Is it just the girl at work that is like this with you? or is it most girls that you have interactions with?

That should give you a better idea as to whether it was just her being off or if it's something to do with yourself that makes girls feel this way when you're around.

Now you're staring to see my point natural. At first my original post seems like it has nothing to do with game, but if you dig deep enough it has everything to do with game. The reason I mention this because it feels like another symptom of my skills or lack of. I also get the same vibe off my manager and some of the others girls at work, but however her and my manager are the coldest towards me. The others girl speak to me out of politeness.

The other girls that i do actually get on with is more of a mother son relationship dynamic if that makes sense. She hit me once when we was talking about if I had a gf "you'll find someone nice" lmfao as a guy that's the worst thing a woman can tell you means you pose 0 sexual threat. And the girl that is really nice is flirty with everyone, it's her natural instinct she could flirt with a brick wall.

Hope this has made things clearer

And any of the girls that do show interest live miles away or everything's on their terms( kind of feeling)