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PostPosted: Sun Nov 15, 2015 10:34 am 
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We met first time 2 days ago , she is a hb8.5 , she is very beautiful but only 1.60 m and i am 1.85 ,on our first date we stayed about 4 hours , her boyfriend broke up with her 2-3 weeks ago and she is very vulnerable and sad, her boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months ,cheated on her with another guy(gay) he was also a big gambler and took all her money and shit and went to casinos,so she has been very depresive and shit,she is going for the therapist about this problems cause she has alot of issues.Well she said she only had 2 boyfriends and she is very loyal and when she falls for a guy , he couldn't get rid of her.
On our first date ,she said that we should come natural and no make up , i said ok we meet and we start holding hands and looking in each others eyes the whole time and talking, when she talks about her ex i always stop her ,cause i dont like to listen to this.
On our second date i planned a photo shoot session ,that she loves to take photos and wanted me and her have cool photos together, my friend photographer left and we decided to plan ot few days later. We started going out, making out all the time , but when something come up , i hate when she is talking me about her memories with her ex, i make her shut up by kissing .
How can i make her forget about her ex, she now leave at a apartment, but she will move at dormrooms near me in few days, we're both is college , she is freshman and i am third year, she is 20 and i am 22.
What things can i do to make help her forget the past and be more present now,i would be in a relationship with her, but i need to be sure this is not a phase, and after i will help her forget she will change and leave me or something,shes very childish and full of life all the time.
Need some advice on how to get her more involved and make her forget about her ex.
And i need to be sure that she wont leave after i help her get pass her ex.

Any advices are wellcome
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 15, 2015 10:53 am 
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Yea, it's pretty borderline oneitus. You can't change people though, she obviously hasn't moved on from her ex so I guess time is the only thing that will help which is out of your control.

Just do your thing, perhaps have a word with her that you don'r really wanna play therapist and listen to her moan about her bf around you. But that won't stop her from thinking about it.

TIME.

Chase other girls in the mean TIME and continue doing some things with her. You need to make her understand that you're there for romantic reasons, not a therapist.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 16, 2015 9:28 am 
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Yea, it's pretty borderline oneitus. You can't change people though, she obviously hasn't moved on from her ex so I guess time is the only thing that will help which is out of your control.

Just do your thing, perhaps have a word with her that you don'r really wanna play therapist and listen to her moan about her bf around you. But that won't stop her from thinking about it.

TIME.

Chase other girls in the mean TIME and continue doing some things with her. You need to make her understand that you're there for romantic reasons, not a therapist.
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You're playing rebound and are simply going to deal with the things that rebounds deal with. Theres no miracles going to happen here to randomly nap away that guy she was just with and probably still in love with from her mind only 3 weeks later.

Let her do her. Just don't go trying to make something serious out of all of this. Not any time soon at least.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2015 8:57 am 
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Yeah, she is getting back with her ex....
I really liked her, but she was fucked up because of him,she said she would never get back with him, and she did , that guy got her in shitloads of trouble because of gambling debts, anyway short story, i don't want to wrap my mind about it anymore but she is a good girl, should i have a chat with her about getting back together with her ex!? I kinda have some feels for her,i don't want her to get hurt again.
They got back together last night,should i talk with her today again?


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2015 9:04 am 
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that guy got her in shitloads of trouble because of gambling debts
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she is a good girl
Now see, those are two very contradictory statements.
She's not a good girl, she's a fucking loser. Just like her boyfriend probably is.

Why would you want someone who settles for that kind of shit in her life in the first place? Get over it man. She ain't worth it.

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