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eltoro31
PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2015 1:04 am 
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Is it o.k. or not to express ur feelings to women? Or are you better off just keeping your mouth shut and instead express them feelings to them through body language/kino ? As the ol' expression says "Action speaks louder than words". If she's you gf or wife...yeah I guess you can then easily get away with verbalizing your emotions/feelings to them?
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Uh, what kind of feelings are we talking about here? Are you going to bitch and moan about your day? Tell her you're feeling sensitive and sad? Please elaborate. It matters.

Also - how close are you with the girl? How long have you been with her? I mean you can't go being an emotional crazy person around someone you've been out with twice.

More details required.
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Feelings are not confessed. They are demonstrated. Yes, actions speak louder than words.
However that doesn't mean words have no place. They certainly do.

The reason we advocate to not vomit your feelings is that if you're a newbie, chances are very high you will do it out of neediness, desperation and also prematurely.

There's a difference between confessing your feelings and expressing them. Expressing them is normal, when appropriate. Confessing is needy and repulsive.

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Not sad nor depressing negative feelings. More like I like you, I find you attractive, you make me feel happy when Im around you type of feelings? And as for the time frame of knowing this woman? Lets say 2-3 months.
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Thanks R.C. for the clear perspective.
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as long as you're not needy about it.
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When I know she's sort of mine, I'll say "I dig your shit" with a smirk if she asks a bunch of times what I want from her, etc.

I would never say that in the first month.

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so to clarify to Toros question, things like the examples he stated are OFF limits for at least a month?

until then its "coldhearted, I'm texting 10 other girls and dont care about you that much, dont expect anything sweet from me" until after you've closed?
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When I know she's sort of mine, I'll say "I dig your shit" with a smirk if she asks a bunch of times what I want from her, etc.

I would never say that in the first month.
I dig your shit?

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lol. I say it when a girl says she loves me.

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Depends.

What is it you're trying to accomplish by doing so?

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so to clarify to Toros question, things like the examples he stated are OFF limits for at least a month?

until then its "coldhearted, I'm texting 10 other girls and dont care about you that much, dont expect anything sweet from me" until after you've closed?

would still love any clarification on this please!!


girls listen to drake and the weekend which is full of emotional sappy "feelings" music….yet IRL its considered AFC and needy…

would love to hear an experts opinions…..its still related to the OPs original question.

"Not sad nor depressing negative feelings. More like I like you, I find you attractive, you make me feel happy when Im around you type of feelings? And as for the time frame of knowing this woman? Lets say 2-3 months."
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If you are feeling her nipples with your finger tips...it's fine.

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OP, have you slept with this girl or is she a friend?
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When I know she's sort of mine, I'll say "I dig your shit" with a smirk if she asks a bunch of times what I want from her, etc.

I would never say that in the first month.
I dig your shit?

I
dig
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shit
?
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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