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It's all about the individual.
I'm 40 and I go out with 21-27year olds consistently ( in fact this is the wheelhouse for me, for whatever reason. I do not date 30 year olds). I lift weights for an hour every other day, and I only eat carbs once a week. I do not smoke or drink, which age you tremendously. My waist is 32 inches and I'm 6'3.
I do not wear sweat pants or sports team sweat shirts. I make sure I get sun occasionally and that my teeth are white.
It's very, very easy to let yourself go and slip into a life of televised sports and yardwork/drinking. You know the guys, in their 30's and 40's, wearing ballcaps, mom jeans and the same college sports sweathshirts. They look 50 or 60. The extra 30-40 pounds does not help.
I actively seek out new music and literature. I do not watch TV or listen to the radio.
Improving yourself physically and mentally, and always evolving keeps you out of the "dad zone" (sports, gaming, bar losers).
Fucking this.
I instadated this 18-year old college girl awhile ago. She didn't mind holding hands and eyefucking a +40-year old man who is physically fit and dresses okay.
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