got 3 situations would love some quick feedback on.

1) HB8 has been posting a ton of sappy, romantic, lovey dovey stuff on her social media lately. Alot of stuff about love, relationships, posting links to songs that are all sappy AFC love songs. i havent responded to any or commented on anything, but do you think i should bring any of it up in text or call game? or just keep being mr AMOG, i dont care about your feelings, I'm not looking for love type of attitude. is there any non AFC ways to maybe bring up romance? its confusing because girls listen to all these love songs where guys sing and sound like AFC clingy stalking losers and I'm wondering how that could be applied to text/call game without DQing yourself.

2) Related to #1, and i really feel this way its not just some BS line. But its winter now, its cold, dark and extremely lonely. I feel like winter is the time girls look for that cuddle buddy to keep warm with, in fact most of my past relationships were started in the winter. something about shacking up and the romance of thanksgiving, xmas, the snow, etc. But I'm wondering if theres a way to frame some texts that could apply to this without coming off needy or AFC. some ideas, and feel free to kill them if they suck.

"damn this cold and darkness is almost making me feel lonely over here!"
" you know what smart people do in the winter? they look for that hibernation buddy lol"
"whats your plan for staying warm this winter?" haha some of those suck, but maybe they can serve as catalysts for your ideas. i hate that last one because the smartass in me would say "run the heater" lol….

3) HB10 has been frustrating as hell lately, super vague, flakey text responses. her responses come back in muddled words that barely make sense. i really want to neg her or give her some shit about it like
"hey everything alright over there, last night you sounded like you were on planet Xanzibar"
"how many xanaxs did you pop last night girl damn! you were all over the place"…..
"hey mystery woman, the way to my heart is NOT all these super descriptive long texts you've been sending".

mostly i wanna call her out on being so damn weird lately, but i know the amog response is to freeze out completely, but i can't help but wanting to tease or neg her a bit over that. this is a girl that hit on ME and asked for my number btw, so the sudden shift in tone is kind of pissing me off. why ask for my number if your not even gonna talk!

RAPID FIRE…GO!

1) What's your relationship with this girl? Why would you bring any of it up? Sounds to me like she's just seeking attention. Moreso, why do you think they're directed towards you?
Personally these "insirational quotes", lovey dovey statuses and sappy love songs make me puke in my mouth a little bit.
Then again I'm not a romantic guy. People want affection, not romance and grand delusions of endless, unconditional love.
The only women I've ever met that were obsessed with romance had some deep unresolved issues.

That being said, if I see her post shit like that I'll tease her for it. Relentlessly. And if she does it a bit too often, I back away. Sloooowly.

2) I guess there's some truth to that.
You constantly worry about sounding needy / afc, but you gotta realize, if you are not needy or afc, you won't sound needy or afc. Everything you say is contrasted by who you are. If I say something like:
"This cold and darkness is making me feel depressed and lonely". She'll perceive it as a funny exaggeration.
If fucking redstar would say something like that she'll start worrying for her life.
Obviously it's a bit more complex than that, but the idea is, don't step out of character. Don't say/do shit that doesn't represent who you are, your humor, wit or intellect.
So instead of worrying about not being perceived as needy, work on improving your life and eliminating as much neediness as possible, nourishing that confidence.

3) So? I've asked for numbers before. Bt wh3n she writ lik dis, i delit dat shit asap. u nomsayan?
She could look like a goddess for all I care. Being dumb/uneducated/unable to form a sentence is a supreme turnoff for me.
So when she asked for your number she saw you as attractive physically. But maybe you then displayed character traits that she found unappealing.
Negs are needy. Never use them, never think of using them again. They also don't work on women who don't have daddy issues.

And again, what's your relationship with her? Why do you think you're entitled to "call her out"? Why do you think she owes you an explanation?

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thanks for your feedback

1. any way to clarify on what is teasing vs negging? kind of feel like making fun of girls for listening to that sappy music might be close to a neg. either way i probably won't bring it up. i just find it funny how girls listen to music where the lyrics are full of AFC chumpness that if guys did in real life they would be friend zoning left and right. they need to make up their minds! my relationship with her is that we just met and I'm trying to holler at her! and this sappy romance shit is kind of throwing off my game because i have gamed girls who absolutely hated the quick escalation, sexual stuff and told me to cut it out, and i ended up closing anyways pulling the sappy lines.

2. i like the winter analogies, and yes I'm definately being worried too much about coming off as AFC needy, its one of my bigger fears because i notice alot of the game i brainstorm might come across as such. and i remember when girls would text me in that tone and just totally turn me off, so i want to run by all possible lines beforehand. shit just the other day you guys told me selfies = needy lol. so got me paranoid a bit.

3. still on freeze out and probably won't reply with any of those lines. you're right, whats my reason for even scolding her. she doesn't sound dumb or ghetto, in the past weeks convos she actually struck me as pretty smart. i just think the last few nights she has been on a bender of booze and xanax and her responses were extremely vague and pissed me off. my reason for being mad, why ask for my number and then act like a total klutz on text message? either way its buried, i need a good re-engage line to pull her back and just forget about all the clumsy vague texts from the other night.

1) Why?

2) Why?

3) Why?

Sounds to be like you're spending a great deal of time trying to be something that you're not at the moment. The guy that purposely try an carry these "dominant alpha" personalities are see through and humorous to watch. You want it to actually be you, and not some attitude that you're projecting in attempt to gain more attention.

I personally haven't read a girls Facebook wall to analyze the consistency of her statuses since myspace was popular and I was a high school freshman drooling over the hot junior cheerleader. Who I got with as a sophomore after stopping the nonsense.

How do you do with women in general? And why are you in this?

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true true and true, regarding the women I've targeted at least. I've definately put too much time and worry into them if I'm catching myself scrolling through their Facebook posts. thats definately bad on my part…..

BUT, i work in a business where information is critical to victory or defeat, it can help you formulate a game plan and see into their thoughts. i figured this could work to my advantage. AND, this is 2015, and women are addicted to social media and post their entire lives for the world to see. you can easily qualify or disqualify a girl based on their social media posts…it can help you learn when to cut and run which is more important.

for example, a totally different girl and i exchanged numbers and IGs/snaps/etc. at first i thought, this girl is an awesome HB8 target to escalate! well i happened to find her twitter, and holy shit was she a mess. after reading a few of her posts, i decided to freeze her out and not even qualify her as a target, hopefully saving me many headaches.


also IRL i do consider myself a dominant personality, i run a large business and employ over a dozen people most of whom are older and more roughneck than me. i have to deal with balancing AMOG personalities almost everyday. i just have to find a way to translate that into my personality towards women because obviously its not working lol….im coldhearted at work but when it comes to women i can be an emotional mess. i used PUA with decent success over 5 years ago in my younger days, got locked down in a LTR, and am now back on the scene trying to pick up where i left off.

1, 2, 3: Too much time and thought going into low yield prospects. Spend that time pursuing other woman for better results.

true, but i was just saying that learning some info about them via social media could help relegate those targets into that low yield category, knocked them off that totem pole or barstool they were on. now that i know they are a wreck i can treat them accordingly in any real interactions and totally cure oneitis and approach anxiety.

i mean you should read some of the shit i found on this one girls twitter, just ridiculous! totally made me lose a ton of respect for her and made me not even interested in pursuing. il still try to smash if i run into her, but now it definatley helps give me the amog/pua attitude towards her if we meet again.