Hi guys. I'm having an issue initiating physical tension with a girl. I already hooked up with her couple of times in a bar. But yesterday, I went to her house and I wasn't able to create this physical tension.. It felt harder when it's not in a bar

Any tips ?

Just go for it. You've already hooked up. A confident man does what he wants. She'll think you're a pussy for not doing anything anyways.

Have fun and enjoy yourself.

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Yeah well ofcourse it's easier in a loud environment where it's "socially acceptable".

It's called stepping out your comfort zone. Only way to do it is by actually doing it.

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The easiest way is to touch from the start. As soon as you enter her house give a long hug and a kiss, pull back a bit and look in her eyes and say "its really good to see you". Sit close to her on the couch, and stick your arm around her. Hell, even try the old yawning trick. Or just stick your peener in the popcorn.

^haha great response.

very true, start escalation early and it becomes natural and expected later. once you wait, and wait, and wait, it becomes MORE awkward. as soon as I'm in the door its definately an intimate hug, followed putting your arm around her, gently touching her waist, etc…you have to walk in that door as if she's your girl already.

It felt more challenging to escalate physically while at a public place versus a private place? Thats the first time I've heard that.

Either way man, that feeling is only something that exist within the confines of your own mind. It didn't exist in hers and it did not exist in the room. And regardless of what it is, you still have to find it in you to push on through it. The same way you have to push through the apprehension of going for the first kiss while on the date, you have to push through the apprehension to escalate sexually even when you don't necessarily "feel" like its a good idea.

If you aren't willing to take a risk you aren't ready to succeed. Take your risk with confidence and you will discover that they aren't much risk after all.

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