Hey guys,

there is this girl from work who i have been spending time with recently. she always invites herself along when I go for coffee at lunch and she has shown signs of interest, constantly touching my arm and smiling at me and all of last week she was dropping hints about me taking her out somewhere, I was too clueless at the time to realize it though.

anyways saturday rolls around and she asks me if I want to go to breakfast with her after work, we went and had a good time, it was just the two of us. I felt some sort of chemistry between us even though she was the one 'chasing" me all week or so it seemed.

Then it's this past monday and she comes into work looking amazing and flirting with me a lot, I believe. she was drawing a lot of attention to her breasts and touching her lips as we were talking and she asked me if I had fun on Saturday and I said yes.

She then went on to tell me about this restaurant in Toronto and she said "just let me know when you're free and we can go, they have really good food" something along those lines. I replied saying, "Yeah for sure".

So Tuesday, Wednesday and now Thursday have passed. I was planning on asking her today but she wasn't at work.

Now the question is, can I still ask her for this weekend? It seems like there is a 99% chance she would say yes because she was the one that brought it up, but even with all the signs I still have a slight fear of rejection.

Have I waited too long? What if she already made plans this weekend? Am I just over-analyzing this or is there any reason for concern and how should I approach asking her?

Please any advice helps..

Thank you,

Joshua

So what? do you not have her number? and if no, why?
Courage is not to be fearless. It's to act in spite of it. We all have our fears, don't be a little bitch.

And yes, sure you can. Just don't do breakfast again. Daytime dates sets you up for fighting and uphill battle. You want to go out at night, for all the obvious reasons in the world.
You waited a few days, not a few weeks. Chill out.
The only reason for concern is you going full panic mode for no reason what so ever.

There's only one way of finding out whether or not her weekend is free.

Step1:
Choose a day you're free on.
Step2:
Text her "<whatever you call her>, you free on X day Y time?"
Step3:
If she says yes, go on date.
If she says no "Ok, when are you free then?"
Step4:
Go on date.

It's not rocket science dude. Read my guide, link's in the sig. It answers your questions in a much more detailed manner and there's no point in repeating myself.

Let me know if you have any questions.

PS: Relax.

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