So i had a first date with this girl and everything went really well. I ended up getting a kiss at the end of the night and i asked her if she would like to go out again and she said she would love to. So the other day i had a second date with the girl. I was at a wedding the previous night and was hungover as shit the whole next day. I went out with the girl and was super awkward and just wasn't my normal fun self. I didn't speak well, my conversations weren't fun and everything sucked. We walked around and i ended up walking her to her car and got a kiss. Afterward, i sent her a text saying" Kathryn, It was nice seeing you again, I felt i wasn't myself tonight being tired and all. I would love to go out again if you want to" she never responded. I talk to a few friends about this and we ended up both agreeing i should message her in a few days. What do you guys think? i really actually liked this girl and it really bothers me that i potentially messed it up with her.

Probably nothing you did. Usually girls have a plethora of options at any one time. Give it a few weeks and have another crack. She's been pretty clear tho at this point

My god can you be less masculine than this?

First off, if you feel like shit don't go out. If you'd had listened to your needs we wouldn't be having this conversation.

Secondly, you're being overly apologetic and it's reeaaaally uncalled for.
Please ser, may I have some more?

Honestly, this text you've sent her is exactly the text I usually receive from women.

Read my guide, come back if you have questions and I'll try answering them. But just to put things into perspective for you, sending a bad text won't fuck up your chances. What's being subcommunicated by this kind of texts will.

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When you're hung over, you're pretty much sick. I would go on a date with the flu, and i wouldn't go out on a date hung over.

In the future save the " I felt like I wasn't myself text" - Its weird. Let her draw her own conclusions. She might not of even noticed.

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She clearly did now that he's send that text.

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I've actually worked this angle to my advantage to form in the girl's mind that I needed to be cared for. Then they would come right over.

I got some first date bangs here in Colombia after being hungover as hell not just from drinking either. Used my "lead the fish to water" move on one glorious afternoon.

I wouldn't sweat it, go to the gym and get your mind right. Then see how it pans out with her.

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I've fucked meetups by being hung over and not my self over text. Being more cold etc. TBQH it's best not to drink at all or minimally.