Hello Everybody,
maybe it sounds unethical for some of you. If you find it evil to take a girl who has a boyfriend, please dont criticize me. But i am pretty serious with the girl. I don't want to steal her from her boyfriend and then kick her off. I didn't even think about having sex to let her to cheat on her boyfriend or make her drunk to cheat her doing something she doesn't want.
First i would describe the situation. I am 24 and she is 24. She has a boyfriend for 3 years. We know each other for 3 months. We can have really good conversations and we have also very similar familiy background, eduaction level. So we have many same ideas and value. Her boyfriend is a worker with highschool eduaction and i and she are master student with some same lectures. We are not from the same country and study in a third country. Her boyfriend is an immigrant children in the studying county and comes from the same country as she.
In general,
1, she almost never mentions her boyfriend to me(fouth, i remeber). And she smiles always when she is with me. Sometimes she smiles pretty flighty.
2, she allows me to touch her hand, hair, leg, back, belly, arm and she will also touch me if she has an excuse
3, she agrees to come out with me to events. And never use boyfriend as an excuse if she cannot come. She also asks me to take her to some events.
4, she tells me about her famliy a lot, her parents, her sister and shows me her bedroom, her house.
5, she waits me everytimes when we have a date
and looks lighted up when i appear.
6, we stare at each others eyes while talking and sit close.
7, we text almost everyday. When i say, "are you busy? Then I go", she will say, "later, ok?" She also lets me to wait until she finish talking if i want go. She uses happy or sad very offen. She also uses "Mmmmmmmm", "okaaay", "sooo beee it".
8, she does't have a ring from her boyfriend(they are not engaged)
9, she will show she is angry in front of me if i say something wrong.
10, she tells her family about me.
but i see that her boyfriend was with her family in some activities.
11, when i say i love her accent, her figure she will laugh.
12, she looks a bit unhappy when i talk about some other girls that i meet.
13, she always shows me the new stuffs that she buys, what she does in the university.
14, she smile to every my jokes and always tells me something funny.
15, i haven't kissed her yet.
16, she knows i know that she has boyfriend.
17, she cares about my situation and remembers what i said.
And some little scenes:
1, with friends on an excursion she need to write something. She write directly on my shoulder without asking.
2, she stays with me when we are far behind the major group. She defends my opinion when i argue with one another guy even she doesn't agree with me(actually she is also aganist my opinion, we quarraled later about that).
3, when i help her with her study, she complains that i am too strict. I said, "you are probably going to hate me". She replied, "I have already been hating you". I:"that's great, hatred is also positive". She stares at me and smiles with a bit angry.
4, evertimes we meet she looks uncertain about if we should hug or not.
5, she says once that i have a wide collection of knowledge and she tells me she pretty likes a professor because he knows a lot, twice. She always tells me that she loves something new.
So, should i use boyfriend destroyer? I think it is better if i use boyfriend destroyer to shatter their relationship first and wait till they break. But many girls tell me if she acts liks this, there is no need to use boyfriend destroyer because if she really likes her boyfriend or in a good relationship with him, she will not act like this. she will already keep distance from me. They say i should kiss her directly and just tell her my thought. Make a showdown with the girl when she is still excited about me.
My plan is, acting as if I were pursuing her and she didn't has a boyfriend. Never mention that i want her to be my girlfriend. Using BF Destroyer to shatter them and establish contact with her famliy member to get support(her sister is also in the studying country). Until she really can't leave me or she breaks i will ask her to be my girlfriend.
Which stratege should i use? Thanks a lot in advance!
CHAT
