My ex girlfriend and i dated for a 2 in a half years and broke up last year in may. She broke up with me and we had a weird relationship but we loved each other. I feel like there was a overlap and maybe she lost interest in me and found someone else? what the reason was that she broke up with me, i kept a strict no contact rule and tried my hardest to move on but it was a tough year for me.

Anyways about a month I receive a call from her apologizing what she done to me and wanted to just check on me. I kept it friendly and open minded. It didnt seem like she wanted to date again but the weird thing is she asked me if I'm seeing anyone or have been intimate with someone else while we were apart.

we talked for a bit and i wished her the best in life and hung up, though for some reason she didn't want to end the call.

There are more details but I only added things that struck me weird.

I check the other day and someone started following me on instagram and it was her. she never would make an instagram and never would take selfies. some of her posts even talk about how she loves being single. i think she's trying to get someone else attention and boost her ego and peek into my life?

It took me forever to get over her and the curious side of me wants to have hope and maybe see the person in real life but i feel like keeping this instagram account and being friends will burn me so hard.

I've been dating like a mad man since the break up and have several female friends. I slept with some but for some reason i can't get over her? anyone can give me input on her part and some advice for myself.

Thank you very much.

Never get back together with an ex.

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Usually sound advice, but I have known a few people to get back together with ex's and eventually gotten married and are genuinely happy. If you try to get back with her just treat it like a new relationship. Don't jump in with both feet and try to pick up where you two left off before.

Sounds like she left for someone else she had interest in and/or she found someone else down the line that left her recently and now she is seeking for emotional comfort so she can feel like herself again.

I'm completely with R.C. on this. Whether people get back with their ex's and have so called "happy" lives or not makes no difference to me. I have other options and I firmly believe that there are greater options available that I have access to.

You don't want to be the guy she left for the guy that broke her heart so now she returns to the guy she left realizing what she lost or realizing that she isn't good enough for the types of guy that broke her heart. Can you live with being that guy? The guy she settled for because the guy she wanted didn't like her enough?

I hope not.

I'd advise you to remove all contact, remove all social media links, and move on with your life. It'll take sometime but you'll get through it and you'll get better so long as you strive for it.

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