met this HB7.5 a while ago.f-close second date.we get into a mini relationship well i am not sure whether it is real relationship cause i am not sure whether she loves me.the reason why i say that is because there is no spontaneous sex whenever we meet she seems to be dressed up for somewhere and in one instance there was severe LMR.she never also introduced me to any of her family members and friends.But this is where it gets confusing this girl goes nuts if i don't text her for a few days and makes me wonder whether she does that because she feels attached to me.She also has never said anything about me on any of the social media SPAM or facebook.it may seem cheap but most girls who love their guys like showing off.So my questions are; should i find out for sure whether she loves me? or would that be neurotic and if i find out that she doesn't should i just break up with her or should i just string her alone and stop taking her out,get distanct etc.My gut feeling is that she doesn't love me and is stringing me alone should i also play the same game at her but what happens when she founds out that i am stringing her along.help out a genuinely confused member guys.

Have you slept with her or not?

And it sounds like you're developing oneitis. How long has it even been? I think you're involving yourself way too deep at the moment. Maybe she loves you, maybe she doesn't, but what does that even mean? What would that change about the relationship. Her actions are more important than what she may or may not feel. That can change at any moment.

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it has been like 3 months now.fucked her twice.the reason why i ask that is i wanna decide whether to keep taking her out or not.if she is playing me as i think i only want to use her for a booty call nothing more i want to keep my distance.on one hand i don't want to hurt someone on another hand i don't want to get used.that is my dilemma and that is why i am asking all this questions because there many guys with more experience than i do on this board.thanks eddie fews for your reply.you are a very resourceful member and i appreciate your advice.

any other person with any piece of advice? need help guys.

Honestly how can we know whether she loves you or not? You've been with her for 3 months but that can mean a lot - if you see her daily or bi-daily - or it can mean not much if you see her once every weekend. The depth of her emotional connection with you depends on the amount of time the two of you actually interact, and the quality of that time.

Her not showing you off on social media is a sign of nothing. Some girls aren't that hooked on the world of Facebook. And even if she is, you don't "show off" a guy unless you have some security that it might lead to something.

Your inner beliefs reflect on your behavior. You're acting insecure because you think she's stringing you along. As a result you play games which probably make her insecure.

Seems to me you're both battling for the upper hand, and war has no victors.

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Well i think i found my own answers.i
told her to come over.i blatantly asked for sex and she said she doesn't want sex anymore.i started ranting and she sent a shocked smiley then said she is not ready to argue with me.my gut says she is fucking some other dude.i am dumping her ass.