First post here. I'm an AFC 23, 5'11, 3 past girlfriends, sex with one less than 10 times, and I'm not bad looking. I read Models by Mark Manson, and the first parts of The Game by Neil Strauss. I'm posting here because a friend and I went to a bar. He scored right away and I couldn't even open a single set. I'm pathetic. I really hate to ask for help, but I have no choice. I can't do this alone. I tried the first mission, but don't feel like I was very successful. I maybe managed to say hi to one HB. It almost feels like everybody was avoiding me.

I don't know what to say. This seems impossible. I'm a funny guy, but I have to know people to know how to make them laugh. I make everybody in the room laugh once I know them well, I'm not nearly as funny with strangers.

I would really like it if somebody pointed to me to set of exercises that would help me get past some of my social anxiety. Ideally, I would love to learn how to open sets. I don't care if I can't close numbers at first, but I would love to walk up to a group and entertain them for a bit. I'd love to feel welcomed to a group of strangers. Eventually, I would need to learn how to isolate my target, but for now, opening sets is good enough. Do you guys have any recommendations on how to start that? What are the best places to practice opening sets? I find it difficult to open sets at bars because of the loud music. Same thing with clubs.

As a side note, would like to practice this quite a bit, and half my sarges will most likely be solo. Thanks.

Reading Models was a very wise choice. Props.

Other than that dude, it's all about overcoming your ego. You just have to go out and do it. You'll suck at first, and once you understand that's fine and learn to have fun with it it will become a pleasure.

Put in the time and effort and you will thank yourself later.

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Basically you have to understand that this is not and event, its a process. Its just like whipping your body into shape. If you look at yourself from day to day during workouts you will not notice much change. But through repetition of the same exercises you will begin to have noticeable results after 60-90 days.

What you have to do is work out your mental and emotional state and if you haven't done it much before it could potentially take longer than 60-90 days. Its something you have to strive for everyday. You have to correct the thoughts that don't belong, speak the truth you want into your life out loud and take the proper actions to get there.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

You change your thoughts and you change your destiny.

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