Backstory Quick and easy: For starters, i am 18.

Girl i'm very connected to, she feels extremely comfortable with me. Extremely attractive, and when i bring her to places she has constant guys hitting on her. So my first question is, when other guys hit on her, should i not care about it and go about my night, or should i intervene? Given we are not dating.

Second Question

We have known each other for 4 weeks now. I have only kissed her twice on two separate occasions, because i have been really nervous about messing what we had up. As i learned from Eddie, i have had trouble with courage in my past, i have been working on it though. Last night she has 5 beers and was feeling pretty good. It was 3:30PM and i was driving her home from a party we were just at. I did not drink.

We share the same taste and music and she said, "you always have the right music, i neeeed to hear it."
With some banter, i put it on loud, then she said, "We neeeed the windows down too!" I said, "even better let's put the car in convertible, and that made her extremely excited. 5 minutes into the ride she said, "I have to take this off" and she took her shirt off and just danced in the car. This is something i have not experienced before. The whole drive home, she and i were in a extremely hyped mood.

Once i got to her house, even though there was an intense amount of sexual tension of her and i just starring into each other's eyes and talking, i didn't do anything... until right when she was about to get out. Thinking about what Eddie had told me on the forums, i pulled her back and started to kiss her, there was an abundant amount of passion comming from both of us. It was an amazing decision and i can't explain how happy i was that i broke that barrier and did that. (Before it was only quick kiss's, this was the first passionate makeout)

I am leaving for europe in a few days, and she knows this. She is extremly sad about it. She told me that her and i had to get drunk together before i left. She get's off work at 8:30 and i told her the second she was off to call me and i would come get her. She was quick to say yesss.

She is a virgin, so am i. From what she head about me, she does not know i am, and thinks i am not. I am going to have to over to my house to drink, but as i said, this is my first time. That's why i am on the forums right now. I barley have any idea of how to lead her to the room, bring it up, or the kind of conversation we should have before we do it. That's where i really need your guy's help. Is there any advice you can give me with this?

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You actually expect we can "prep" you to lose your virginity in like an hour?

Just give it your best shot, man. Have fun with it -- you're likely gonna suck, but that's why you go again afterwards...

Wrap it up - for obvious reasons and also so it dulls the sensitivity a bit and will let you last longer.

Good luck.

For off, thanks for the shoutouts. The move is the reason you're about to get laid and If I had even 1% of anything to do with that I'm happy. And I'm happy for you.

This is an easy one man. That make out is a much bolder move than leading a girl to your room when you guys are both wasted. Don't think about it too much today. Focus on your work, or whatever it is you have to do. Get the drinks, hang out, and while making out with her again, just lead her to your room.

And don't underestimate the power of the neck and the breast. Those are womens 3 hot spots. You learn to properly play with a woman breast and she will kill if you don't sleep with her. The two breast and the throat are a woman positive pole. Her vagina is her negative pole. Too many guys mess up by rushing to the vagina. Thats why they get hit with all of the LMR. Go for the breast first.

When you touch and suck on a woman breast her body produces oxytocin. ITs a bonding chemical. The same chemical that bonds a mother to her child during breast feeding.

I think you'll be straight man. You seem like the exact kind of guy a girl would want to lose her virginity to.

Let us know how it goes.

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I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. There really isn't anything special about losing your virginity. I've always found the concept of male virginity to be downright bizarre. I can at least grasp the antiquated relevance of female virginity. But since you can't have babies....

It's not like you learn all that much your first time. No one goes from bumbly and awkward to smooth and sensual from one or even five times. Before you have sex the first time, you're inexperienced. You're still inexperienced after the second and fifth times. It's a learning process and it's gradual. It is not a major event. It's one step on a very long journey.

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So did your train enter the tunnel or nah?

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Update! The night went awesome, it's disappointing to me how worried I was but the night went well. After a few shots she had told me she was planning on loosing it to me. The night went on and and she slept together BUT I was to drunk I had whiskey dick and didn't loose it. Now I'm gone for 30 days an kind of worried she is going to loose those feelings

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So what bro?

Theres more girls, theres more opportunity. You found yourself here once and you will find yourself here again.

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Maybe don't drink so much next time. Couple of drinks will loosen you up but go overboard and this happens

She probably won't lose the feelings as long as you don't overwhelm her. And even if she does, then what Eddie said.

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Yea this was a good reminder, I almost did overwhelm here. As to what you said Eddie, I will move on but she's the hottest/ chilliest girl I have been with so a lot
Of me still wants to keep the connection with her. I know I need to keep practicing my game though

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Prepare for next time.

Read/watch videos on stimulating her G-Spot with your fingers.

Buy the following:
Cialis(AllDayChemist). You can give it to her too. It works for women just the same as men. You don't need ED to enjoy it.
A sex pillow
Some nice, flavored lube(awesome consistency, and tastes good if she blows you after fucking).

If you aren't getting hard at first, it's cool. Just play with each other. I think you'll get more into after a bit and get over it quickly. If not, at least you get a chance to work on your fingering/oral skills.

When I was inexperienced, I found it easier to fuck doggy style than missionary. I had problems penetrating her in missionary as well as getting lined up right. And if I fell out, it was the same problem getting back in. It was a lot easier once I was a bit more experienced with my dick/her pussy.

That little pillow makes things a lot easier for you, and more intense for her. I still use it(D&P pointed me it maybe a year and a half ago). You can fuck her very deep when she's on her back, with her ass on the peak and her back on the ramp, with her legs up. It's not nearly as strenuous for her, as it usually would be, as she doesn't have to exert herself at all. It can also be used for doggy, so she doesn't have to support her body weight with her arms.

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Thank you for all this Versalis! I appreciate the advice

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