So often hear women say things about me like "OMGGGG...You are so cute...". I mean its like cute the way you would call Pokeman or a cute dog or kid. And I always have mixed feelings about it. As its not meant as cute in the sexual reference. They usually just say that based on my expressions or actions that I do. As I admit I can sometimes be a big kid and do it totally unitentionally. As generally my demeanour when people meet me is I tend to be a serious guy (And some people can actually be intimidated that). But when they know me I am a bit of a goof and a big kid. Which is pretty contrary to the first impression.

I mean it's not that women won't say I'm good looking. However they will use the word "handsome" then. Or they will just tell me I look hot. But I always wonder when a girl is saying something if she is immediately friendzoning you when she says that though by calling you cute in that context. Like you're cute like a little baby that she wants to cuddle and kiss. But not necessarily be sexual with. My feeling is generally a man you see as a sexual being you wouldn't say this. So I feel kind of complimented and will be like hmmmm....

It's a little confusing since I've had pretty much all my serious girlfriends still use that reference to me too as common denominator. Saying stuff like "You're too cute for your own good" or "I feel like I'm dating a little kid" (She'll laugh at something I do). So it seems to be an attribute women like about me. Just not sure if that's so good when a woman says that and you haven't crossed the sexual barrier with her if its good then.

Whaddya guys think?

Any type of compliment or flirting thts from the girl you're talking to is always good. She wouldn't say if at least she wasn't somewhat attracted. Its a highpoint or an open window for u to escalate either verbally , physically, or logisticly.
Verbally- compliment her, soi-release, take the conversation sexual in an unthreatening way, qualify her ,etc.
Physically-touch /kino (keep it minimal in the daytime) or simply getting closer to her which is closing the space between u both.
Logisticly-try to move or isolate her to test for attraction (A) Iin order to move forward.

Most important though is tht rewarding her for being nice is important because you're conditioning her to be more open /nicer to
you in the future. She's also more likely to be more compliant. Good shit

In my extensive experience of being friendzoned, the word "cute" is good. However, watch out for the word "sweet", as in if you pay her a compliment and instead of returning one she says "omg you're so sweet!", the chances are you're in the FZ.

Of course this might not always be the case, nothing is 100%. But that's what I generally go with as a rule of thumb.

P.s, what I do sometimes
Her: "Aw you're so cute!"
Me: "Thanks, you're hot too"

It's always good. If it were bad you probably wouldn't be hearing about it.

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Girls call me cute, girls call me handsome, and girls call me sexy. I take it all as the same. I interpret everything as a positive, because I just have a high level of esteem.

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I wouldn't say it's a bad thing if you're already sleeping with the girl. But if you just meet a girl and she sees you as a teddy bear... you've got something wrong there lol

You're most likely missing that "bad-ass" side of you. The part of you that's going to make her pussy drip. The part of you that most guys in modern society have had repressed by their fucking mothers.

If that's the case... You probably have girls tell you that "You'd be a perfect boyfriend." Again... because you don't have that threat factor about you.

Sound about right?

Badass probably not a factor. And some women will even say I have the bad boy look when they meet me. Being martial artist for a couple decades (Kickboxer and Grappler) there is plenty machismo. At the very least, most guys describe as a mans man. Actually that's what I mean about my serious demeanour. Some girls actually seem intimidated by me at first. But then get to know me and find out I'm actually a pretty nice guy at heart which is just who I am and how I've been brought up(Part of what your saying). Heck i'm nice to people even right before I hit them with a head kick when sparring at the gym. (As even George Sainte Pierre can). So I can flip from one extreme to the next. So it's like I'm the bad boy on the outside and the nice guy on the inside when you know me.

But I get what you're saying in essence. There is probably some truth to what you mean. Since I think women see too much machismo and then get to know me and actually forget their first impression(One extreme to the other). I need to most likely manage that middle ground.

I agree...I'm attuned to the "Sweet" alert as well.

This wouldn't be the case of what I'm mentioning of statements of being "sweet"

There's your answer