After lunch with my target i instinctively put my hand on her lower back when saying goodbye for a split second and she reacts by putting her hand on on my lower back as well... also for a split second

we were walking side by side and i did it while she was about to enter elevator while i had to go off

anyone knows what it means if a girl does it? Does it mean im in friendzone category?

I would think it means she's mirroring you. Why would you be worried about this? Escalate.

hmmm i never saw it from the mirroring perspective

what does it mean if she is mirroring me?

sorry, had no chance to escalate as she was entering the elevator

It means you're leading her. She's following you. She admires you. She's attracted to you.

But who cares? Assume attraction either way and behave as such.

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finding it hard to believe that... just don't want to assume attraction cause the fall will be greater if turns out there wasn't any

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Assuming attraction is a state of mind that generates attraction. Lets say you assumed " I am ugly and no girl likes me" - How would that frame of mind cause you to behave around women? - Now lets say you assumed " I'm a fun loving guy and women love me" - How would that state of mind cause you to behave around women?

Stop leaving the attraction up to women. Lead. They are not in control.. Reading their cues etc. is all you putting the attraction in their hands. You're the man. You're the bigger stronger, more brain cells, slower aging figure. Why are you leaving it up to them.

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okay this thread is not relevant anymore

the target i was looking at got attached over the past weekend... n i now realise she didnt say anything about it when i met her for lunch this past Tuesday based on which i created this thread... she still hasn't told me anything... found out about it thru mutual friends