A common theme I keep hearing in pickup is that you want to have a life so awesome and exciting that girls want to be a part of it, but also will make you love life so much that you don't feel clingy to any girl bc there are other things going on in your life that act as your crutch.

My question may sound stupid, but what will make my life awesome and fun?

I believe I have already started. I did a Men's Physique Competition about a week ago and my mood is much, much improved. I want to do these competitions for life. I am happy and really proud of myself. Other people notice it as well. I feel a good sense of self worth. I want to continue to do things will make me feel good. I am an accountant so i want to balance this boring profession out with interesting things. In the near future, I want to:

1. Get a tattoo to primarily remind myself everyday to be a better person (and hopefully will attract hot girls. They love tats)
2. Buy and ride a motorcycle.
3. Learn how to surf.
4. Go sky diving.
5. Learn how to dance so Im not awkwardly standing around in clubs

Do you think this is a good start?

Great start, but unlike what you may have read or whatever, IME you don't need to have all these activities. The only thing you need is contentment. Be at peace with yourself and the world around you and the girls will sense this; they are HIGHLY intuitive.

The reason they may be recommending to do all these activities is because they can lead to contentment as you described with the physique competition. But as you may have noticed, that may have given you a temporary natural high.

Strive for permanent contentedness.

How to get there? Always be looking forward to an amazing future; be tremendously exhilarated when thinking about what's to come. Note I am not suggesting to drop any of your planned activities - they may indeed play a vital role in your evolution.

Being happy with your life will attract hbs and men alike. It's simple really. When you're a fun loving guy and always have a good time, people will want to be around you to share that.

Activities you mentioned are great, they will definitely help. But it all comes down to the emotions you stir in people.

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