At the moment my lifetime expectations are not quite going to plan. My college social life moving back home, losing my friends has gone down the pan. And to top it off my gf could not manage the long distance so ended with me.

My job sucks, all i do is sit at a desk pretending to do work all day, and it has made me take the last week and a half off sick as i am so depressed with that, and my gf leaving me.

Here is the thing.....

Since my gf ended with me, i joined 2 fitness clubs, exersize every day, decided to quit my job in 3 months time for a new one that I have been offered that i will enjoy.

Until the three months is over i just feel so fricking depressed, I even went to the strip club last week end and ended up crying thinking of my ex. I'm accepting that its over and think fuck her, but going out for me was the worst thing possible as every fricking song SPAM reminds me of her, and every girl i talk to does also.

Any ways anyone knows of being happier until i can change my job where i know i will be very occupied.

Go out with friends and try having fun.

It's a pain period that you gotta push through. You can make it easier on yourself, but it will be painful nonetheless.

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All easy to say, but I'm back from college after 3 years. All my "friends" from before have kids now, married, liturally none want to hang out or do anything fun. My only single friend who does hang out with me has severe depression.

This is why i joined a couple of clubs, but making friends at normal clubs seems to be alot harder than uni, where everyone is new and wants to make new friends. Everyone seems to already have a click.

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