Gentlemen,

During a bit of night game yesterday, using natural game (my favourite), I started a good conversation with this 9 that did not lived in the city and just visiting her family for couple of days. Her brother was around, I gave him lots of validation and he left us alone. In isolation I invited her to move around the club just to get a drink in another place. She instantly said she had a boyfriend. I was pretty confident at that point because I have a boyfriend destroyer (which worked before). Problem was I wans't fully concious of our interaction because I had few drinks... As the interaction progressed, i asked her what she was doing tomorrow, i invited her for a coffee (day 2 mentality) but she insisted she had a boyfriend. I said i just wanted to get to know her a little better... So i grabbed my phone to get her contact or whatever, then i got caught in this weird shit test: "Do you remember my name?" I had no clue, tried to make it up but she remembered my name... As I progressed for the phone number, she looked down on my phone, looked back at me and said again she had a boyfriend. * I should have used the boyfriend destroyer here but i forgot* Insisting on getting a contact for day 2 she threw a line that kinda cracked my whole game: "I am only a one time thing!" That is what everybody want to hear, but she would not give me any further advance for that. I got lost afterwards because i was so confused and I had no idea to break the shit test and bring her home. At the end her brother came along and I had to go.

Lads, I know it has passed, but I really want to know what I should have done.... thank if somebody has any ideas how i could have turned this around.

You should've remembered her name.

If she's attracted to you and willing, the only time you'll be hearing about the boyfriend is in the cab that's taking you back to your place, while your tongue is 3 inches down her throat.

Why would you put so much effort in turning around a rejection? 3 times?

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You fucked up by not remembering her name.

And you have no balls for not looking her in the eye, grabbing her hand, and dragging her the fuck out of there. Fuck all that coffee nonsense dude. She told you she had a boyfriend. The only way she's sleeping with you is if its right then and there. She even fucking told you that too.

My advice for you... don't be a pussy next time.

Sounds like you had it but probably you should drink less next time if it impairs your game. If you remembered her name and tried more kino just screening it could have gone further. Just take it as a learning experience man these hoes will come around.

Thanks lads, well better way to learn is to fuck things up some times.

Her saying she has a boyfriend was her clear " I don't want to sound like a slut" way of saying " fuck me today, because I'm not going to be able to fuck you after this". We're so clueless as guys - its funny. Its why girls think we're stupid. Because we don't understand that women communicate in hints and we have to pay enough attention to know whats going on. Eventually she told you plainly in that " he just doesn't get it " kind of way.

Your boyfriend destroyer wasn't needed; a simple hint at the fact that you weren't interested in having a girlfriend either was all that was.

Some girls are just looking to get laid nowadays. All the sappy " I want to get to know you stuff" is a turn off.

The truth is.. you don't want to get to know her; you want to sleep with her, so telling her that is a sign that you're a liar and she picks up on this. How can she trust you? Hence the " you don't even remember my name" statement.. You want to get to know her but you didn't remember her name? lol.. Don't lie; you want to bang her and if you had been truthful, she would of slept with you.

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Wow Eddie, thank you so much! That certainly open somehow my eyes now...

Yeah man. There's nothing wrong with not remembering her name. I disagree with my fellow brothers on that. But there is something wrong with lying about wanting to get to know her, and THEN forgetting her name. Had you just keep it real and said you wanted to bang her, names would be irrelevant.

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And that makes perfect sense, because i started screening her before she threw me that question... i kinda believed she had a boyfriend really so i thought by screening her it would help to move things forward. Oh well, i lost the girl but i am kinda happy now because i learned something. Thanks again bro!

You gotta be congruent dude. Women are more perceptive than men are. Telling her you wanna get to know her better when you didn't even make the effort of remembering her name is as in-congruent as it gets.

Also it doesn't matter if she has or doesn't have a boyfriend. It's the intentions behind the words that matter.

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How to keep a girl.

If you are doing natural game do the following...

-Worry less about what you say, but how you say it
-Stay away from getting to much to drink
-Be the man and use your body language and kino to show it
-Personally, I don't even acknowledge when a girl tells me shes in a relationship
-Strong ass eye contact!!!!!!<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
-And stay on your ground no matter what