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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2015 6:10 pm 
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something I have realized recently is women hate logic. Now I am not talking about something as logical as the LSAT, but something very ordinary like answering their questions.

Any time you answer a woman's question and your answer makes sense, it's a turnoff for them??

Example: a woman asks "what is the name of this song?"
I used to think a good answer is "the name of this song is Winter Wonderland" but that makes too much sense and women hate it??

better answers:
question: "what is the name of this song?"
answer: "do you know Kim? the girl that was on that show? you remind me of her"

answer has nothing to do with the question. but somehow this is better??

Does anybody know what I am talking about here? if what you say is logical in the slightest bit, it's somehow unsexy?
is there any time you want to talk to a girl in a way that makes sense?


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Its not that women don't care for logic; they just care more for fun.

If you're my buddy and you asked me for a dollar would you rather me give you the dollar that you asked for or a lump of melted 14k gold.

Now thats tangible so of course you would prefer the gold; cause its worth more. And of course no one would ever do this, but the beauty of seduction and words is that you can ALWAYS give the GOLD instead of the dollars. Its WORDS, there is always an opportunity to give something a bit more pleasing than what was asked for. It cost you nothing, and it takes the same amount of time. And there is even a reward for doing so.

I'm honestly glad that women are this way. How boring would they be if they wanted everything exactly the way they asked for it? That shit would suck. How could you fall in love logically? It just doesn't make any sense. The world runs on logic, but fantasy runs on the illogical, and our emotions are all based on our mental fantasys and the illogical. Women just happen to be a bit more emotional.

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Eddie posted a great response, and framed it in a light I've never considered before.

I would also add that with every question she asks, you are falling in to her bubble/frame. She is the one leading the conversation. Remember it's your world and she's just in it temporarily. Do you want to talk about the song? Do you care about the song?

Your answer might not attract her because you aren't passionate about what you are talking about.

If your favourite song came on and she asked "what's this song?"
You'd probably go off on a lecture about the artist and how good they are, because you genuinely care.

But winter wonderland? I'd rather change the topic personally.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2015 11:27 pm 
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You're overthinking this one a little bit OP. It's great to be unpredictable, but that doesn't mean you ignore all of her logic-based questions and comments.

Her: "What's this song?"

You: "It's Winter Wonderland."

Of course you could tease her a little before giving the answer. "U don't know the name of this!? Are u from earth?"


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They don't hate logic, they just don't value it as much.

It's far more important to a woman how something makes her feel rather than how much logical sense it makes. And you know, that's perfectly fine.

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They don't hate logic, they just don't value it as much.

It's far more important to a woman how something makes her feel rather than how much logical sense it makes. And you know, that's perfectly fine.
Yeah, he's right.

And just like Eddie said, you could still make logical sense but that doesn't mean you can't make it exciting at the same time.
Women respond best to emotion.

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