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PostPosted: Tue Mar 10, 2015 10:20 pm 
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i have approach anxiety and i really do not know how to deal with it. theres this one girl at my school, shes so nice but then she is never alone! im pretty new to the game so can you guy give me a step by step process in which i will be able to get the girl of my dreams!!! :!: :!: :!:
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If she is with friends, you need to approach the whole group and game them. You can use a safe functional opener like "Where is the (college building)?" and after they answer, you then transition and say something like, "You guys seem really friendly, I'm (your name)." and then build rapport with the group.

It sounds like you have oneitis though. You could open her and get the ball rolling but you should practice your conversational skills on many people to get comfortable opening and talking with new people and you will slowly get rid of approach anxiety as well.

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"Hey, I'm really shy and I usually don't do this... but I thought you were really cute and wanted to come say hi. My name is..."

Don't over think it. Just be genuine.
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i have approach anxiety and i really do not know how to deal with it. theres this one girl at my school, shes so nice but then she is never alone! im pretty new to the game so can you guy give me a step by step process in which i will be able to get the girl of my dreams!!! :!: :!: :!:
You're new so saying stupid shit is acceptable. But take a step back and please answer me how a girl you've never even talked to before is "the girl of your dreams"?
She can be a half-retard but you're already placing her on a pedestal, which you never should by they way. How do you stand out from the crowds of orbiters who do precisely the same thing?

She's not a special snowflake.

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i have approach anxiety and i really do not know how to deal with it. theres this one girl at my school, shes so nice but then she is never alone! im pretty new to the game so can you guy give me a step by step process in which i will be able to get the girl of my dreams!!! :!: :!: :!:
Except the fact she's not going to be your next shag. Do you want to learn all your mistakes the hard way by gaming her? No, make those mistakes with other random semi-hot gals instead. You have too much valuable time on your hands to waste it procrastinating over some hot girl. If you've never spoken to her, then it's just a sexual attraction towards her you have. What if you saw her returning home to her dorm some night with another jock ready to get down and dirty? Would you feel the same way about her then?
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Hey brother, the best way to approach this girl is to just approach her. As simple as that.

Forget about trying to say the perfect line or whatnot. Just walk up to her, introduce yourself, and begin having a normal, genuine conversation with her and see how things go.

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

― Og Mandino

Nothing worth while ever comes easy, and you're not going to have any break throughs within your own life until you make an attempt to "break through". Theres a wall up here and it takes FORCE to break through a wall. This is no different. Just as you would have to physically force yourself through a wall to break through it, you'll have to FORCE yourself to approach her to breakthrough your approach anxiety. There is no easy way out. That quote is simply a sledge hammer, you still must lift it and use it to crash through the wall.

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

― Og Mandino

Nothing worth while ever comes easy, and you're not going to have any break throughs within your own life until you make an attempt to "break through". Theres a wall up here and it takes FORCE to break through a wall. This is no different. Just as you would have to physically force yourself through a wall to break through it, you'll have to FORCE yourself to approach her to breakthrough your approach anxiety. There is no easy way out. That quote is simply a sledge hammer, you still must lift it and use it to crash through the wall.

Dude, you're fucking ridiculous with the amount of over information that you type up sometimes. Bunch of mental masturbation. Way to shove the kid in his head even more.

If you want to help this guy, you need to change his beliefs... not reinforce the ones he's got. He needs a different perception that makes talking to girls feel NORMAL for him... not like he's running through a brick wall! What the fuck man?!

It's a GIRL. You are DUDE. Girl makes dude horny. Dude wants to fuck girl. Dude approaches girl. Dude makes girl horny. Dude isolates girl. Girl begs for dude. Dude gives girl what she wants.

Don't make things complicated like that man. Please...
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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

― Og Mandino

Nothing worth while ever comes easy, and you're not going to have any break throughs within your own life until you make an attempt to "break through". Theres a wall up here and it takes FORCE to break through a wall. This is no different. Just as you would have to physically force yourself through a wall to break through it, you'll have to FORCE yourself to approach her to breakthrough your approach anxiety. There is no easy way out. That quote is simply a sledge hammer, you still must lift it and use it to crash through the wall.

Dude, you're fucking ridiculous with the amount of over information that you type up sometimes. Bunch of mental masturbation. Way to shove the kid in his head even more.

If you want to help this guy, you need to change his beliefs... not reinforce the ones he's got. He needs a different perception that makes talking to girls feel NORMAL for him... not like he's running through a brick wall! What the fuck man?!

It's a GIRL. You are DUDE. Girl makes dude horny. Dude wants to fuck girl. Dude approaches girl. Dude makes girl horny. Dude isolates girl. Girl begs for dude. Dude gives girl what she wants.

Don't make things complicated like that man. Please...
Lol you sound frustrated.

Everything cool?

Not everyone's as simple-minded as ya buddy.

Take notes.

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

― Og Mandino

Nothing worth while ever comes easy, and you're not going to have any break throughs within your own life until you make an attempt to "break through". Theres a wall up here and it takes FORCE to break through a wall. This is no different. Just as you would have to physically force yourself through a wall to break through it, you'll have to FORCE yourself to approach her to breakthrough your approach anxiety. There is no easy way out. That quote is simply a sledge hammer, you still must lift it and use it to crash through the wall.

Dude, you're fucking ridiculous with the amount of over information that you type up sometimes. Bunch of mental masturbation. Way to shove the kid in his head even more.

If you want to help this guy, you need to change his beliefs... not reinforce the ones he's got. He needs a different perception that makes talking to girls feel NORMAL for him... not like he's running through a brick wall! What the fuck man?!

It's a GIRL. You are DUDE. Girl makes dude horny. Dude wants to fuck girl. Dude approaches girl. Dude makes girl horny. Dude isolates girl. Girl begs for dude. Dude gives girl what she wants.

Don't make things complicated like that man. Please...
Lol you sound frustrated.

Everything cool?

Not everyone's as simple-minded as ya buddy.

Take notes.

You're taking something that can be very simple and making it complicated to an unnecessary degree ... That is pretty frustrating to watch. That's why I decided to say something. So your read on me was accurate. I try and help people... not prove to them how smart I am.

And don't call me buddy.
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You're taking something that can be very simple and making it complicated to an unnecessary degree ... That is pretty frustrating to watch. That's why I decided to say something. So your read on me was accurate. I try and help people... not prove to them how smart I am.

And don't call me buddy.
Lol well I'm glad you read my shit.

Keep it up and you'll learn to have a better hold on those emotions.. buddy.

What now?

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You're taking something that can be very simple and making it complicated to an unnecessary degree ... That is pretty frustrating to watch. That's why I decided to say something. So your read on me was accurate. I try and help people... not prove to them how smart I am.

And don't call me buddy.
Lol well I'm glad you read my shit.

Keep it up and you'll learn to have a better hold on those emotions.. buddy.

What now?
Nothing. Because no matter what I say... you're still gonna keep posting all the theory shit... confusing people.
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You're taking something that can be very simple and making it complicated to an unnecessary degree ... That is pretty frustrating to watch. That's why I decided to say something. So your read on me was accurate. I try and help people... not prove to them how smart I am.

And don't call me buddy.
Lol well I'm glad you read my shit.

Keep it up and you'll learn to have a better hold on those emotions.. buddy.

What now?
Nothing. Because no matter what I say... you're still gonna keep posting all the theory shit... confusing people.
Lol what a geek.

Just shut up dude.

You're getting ridicules.

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Two coaches fighting and name calling. I miss the old days when things like this were settled by an old fashioned coach off.

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On the internet? lol

I'm down if theres a way you can set it up.

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