Hey!
I'm a 17 years old guy who are tired of the boring lifestyle i have
I sit in all day (not a gamer) in the weekdays, and when the weekend comes i either work or sit at home. I'm almost never out partying, but this is not how i want it! I want to have a life where i am out in the weekends, and in the week people invite me to hang out.

I am sick of a boring life with little exsitment, and no women (not a virgin). I want to be the "casanova" who gets "all" the girls and be a popular guy that people want to hang around. When i'm sitting at home, i have to start ALL the conversations on FB, thats quite shit actually

So, can you guys help me on the road out of the boring lifestyle, be more outgoing and likable? the road to be the guy people want to hang with?
I really need help with this, and a do not like to make things awkward when i do the things.

Thanks!

Get off facebook. Be that guy who has a Facebook but never logs in. Stop surfing the net and just leave the house.

Hang out in parks with your school friends. Go shopping on Saturdays and find girls to chat to.

Organise a party. Chat up girls at school. Enjoy your youth, you'll only be young once.

But yeah even though you're not a gamer, you just need to get off the internet and go out more.

The persons i usually hang with at school are the gamers, who are NOT social at all. I get quickly bored if a hang alone outside (and when i'm home). On the saturdays i am home i am working, if not with my father.
I want to get outside, but i do not want to hang out alone. thats the problem
Is''nt it awkward to just chat up random girls? I am that kind of guy who worries to much about what other thinks, but i want to chang but i don't know how

You change by making decisions and going with them. I appreciate it's harder to go out in the USA with the drinking age being 21 but you need to get out the house and find another interest or those 4 years will be wasted and gone for ever. Try enrolling in a Salsa or Tango class. Me and a friend joined one last year (Salsa) and we were the only men there! Ten girls...two guys, where else are you going to find that?

I can go out and drink in 7 months, atleast then it's legal
I workout with weight (fitness) and are above the avergae body at my age. Dancing is not quite my style. I feel i have wasted enough year in the boredom of not doing anything!
I want a life with fun and suprises, not this boring shit

Change your style then. I wish I had learned dancing at your age. With this "strictly come dancing" program on in the UK, guys who can salsa are getting pulled onto the dance floor by girls and I've even seen queues forming.

Do what you've always done and get what you've always got, I kid you not!

It's no need to dance when there is no place to dance at, or girls to dance with
I just want to be more outgoing, a more likeable person that people want to hang with and invite out, and not be afraid of what people think and just dont give a fuck

I'm gonna give you a starting point... Go for a walk. Take some time to think about things you want to do that are going to give you a more exciting lifestyle and start doing them!!

An object in motion tends to stay in motion. You've gotta start moving some how bro

You can also get some hobbies.

Go hit the gym for example. Instead of spending 2 free hours on facebook , spend them building something you can be proud of.


Few years ago when I was 17 I had school until maybe 2-3 pm , gym till 4-5 , dance till 7-8 and then I'd hang out with my girlfriend and / or best bros.

I literally wished the day had more than 24 hours.


Like everyone else said , you just gotta start somewhere. The start is usually the hardest part.

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