seeing a girl in college (been working for four years now),

any thought on how to manage the income difference?

Im really trying to avoid looking like an AFC. But the truth is she doesnt really have a lot of extra money to spend. The way we do it now is when I take her out to dinner I usually end up paying the thing and have her buy me something afterwards (like the movies or cocktail afterwards), more of a symbolic thing actually.

Would it be a good idea to give her "low budget assignments" ? plan some dates that involve her demonstrating her cooking skils or stuff like that?

any other thoughts or tips?

Propinquity spending.

If you're used to eating out at restaurants where the average meal for one person costs $10 while she's used to eating out in restaurants where the average meal costs $3.95, downgrade your preference to the $3.95 meals. This is, of course, when you haven't f-closed the low income girl yet.

If you spend too high to what she's used to, she'll feel like a prostitute that you're trying to buy with 'high' priced meals. If you spend on cheap stuff that she's used to, she'll feel more emotionally connected to you because somehow, both of you are 'the same'.

If you're already in a relationship with a low income girl and if she likes you very much, she'll try to find ways to make up for the difference by doing nice things for you. Don't stop her from being generous with her time or efforts. In fact, encourage it.

Likewise, act like it's no big deal spending for the usual more 'expensive' stuff that you're used to. However, try to balance this out by going cheap sometimes so the girl will feel more 'emotionally connected' with you for being 'down-to-earth' and having the same preferences as hers.

When girls have higher income than you do, the reverse applies. However, fuck their brains out really well so they'll be spending more often on you than you spending on them.

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lol what a bunch of horse crap. No wonder u guys have problems w wommen

I used to have problems with women (the stalking kind and dramatic, hysterical types) before I got into PUA. Now, I no longer have those.

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or you could just have sex with her and pay for the condoms. -.- income differences don't matter.

You reek of virginity.



@OP

Here's a really good tip for you:

There's rarely an isolated action you can take that will make you look AFC.
If you are not AFC at the core , buying her dinner won't make you one.

In this case don't ever make it look like you're "treating her" to an expensive dinner. Simply let it fly by like it's no big deal to you and that's how you roll.


Does she insist on splitting ? Or at least insist on her paying at times ?

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u reek of the shit advice u dispense

Oh wait that's likely just from your upper lip.

Goober

Oh shit. I must've hit a nerve. Hahahah.

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When you pay, don't make a big deal out of it, act like you are used to it.
But try your best to go to less expensive restaurants, the ones she's used to.
Only reward expensive dinners when she satisfies you sexually or does something amazing for you, that would make her more compliant to you.